Liz Buchanan BVSc MRCVS
Keymaster
Enlarged lymph nodes do remain a possibility but are not usually itchy and are not usually associated with hair loss. Enlarged LNs are not always down to sonething sinister, either. I can't orientate myself very well on this picture so I'm not going to comment on the location; the pop LN is normally behind the knee and quite deep - usually felt rather than seen.
What I would say, is that your mind has done what mine does at the Drs (vets are terrible patients - we know everything that can go wrong with bodies). So I, like you, in a personal context, would go straight from 'lump' to 'something terrible.' Worrying doesn't exempt us from a bad outcome, but there are plenty benign things that this could be from the little context I have here. Cancer doesn't usually itch, for example, although that doesn't rule it out.
If you are worried that the patient seems ill or the situation is deteriorating, call the emergency vets. Otherwise, please do look after yourself as well as your cat. This includes seeking an opinion in context, which I promise will be more useful to you than mine. I hope that they can set your mind at rest.
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