It may sound like a silly question but I would bet most owners with older cats could recount multiple examples of ‘feline senility’. Some are funny, some are sad and some are just plain unpleasant. But as tempting as it is to be angry with your cat for, say, mistaking your bed for a litter tray, the truth is that more than 50% of cats over 15 years of age suffer from some degree of dementia, also known as Cognitive Dysfunction Syndrome (CDS). Is your cat one of them?
Let’s start with a couple of questions to get you thinking:
- Has your older cat started to urinate or defecate in inappropriate places?
- Does your cat demand more attention than she used to?
- Have you noticed your cat crying out more frequently, particularly at night?
- Is your cat less adventurous than he used to be, preferring to stay close to home?
- Is she behaving strangely – staring at walls, forgetting there is food in her dish or perhaps interacting differently with a housemate?
If you answered yes to any of these questions, then your cat is in fact showing at least one of the signs of feline dementia or CDS.
What is Cognitive Dysfunction Syndrome?
The first question that often comes to mind is whether or not it is related to human dementia and in fact the answer is yes, there are many physical and behavioural similarities between CDS in cats and Alzheimer’s disease in humans. Both diseases are likely caused at least in part by physical changes related to decreased blood flow to the brain and an increase in nasty little molecules called ‘free radicals’.
They may have a funny name, but the damage these molecules do to living cells is hardly a laughing matter. The older the body gets the more free radicals it produces and when combined with decreased blood and oxygen flow, these molecules wreak havoc on the particularly sensitive and fragile cells in the brain. All this damage also leads to the deposition of protein ‘plaques’ around the nerve cells, making it even harder for signals to make it through. The end result is a collection of tired, damaged and dirty cells trying unsuccessfully to maintain normal brain function. A pretty distressing thought!
The longer this process goes on, the harder the cat finds it to do the simple things that used to come so naturally. They may forget where the litter tray or cat flap is, resulting in poor toilet habits. Changes in sleeping habits and activity levels can lead to increased stress, which in turn can result in loud, seemingly pointless crying.
Meals are forgotten and relationships with both human and animal housemates may suffer. Nobody wants to see their cat experience this kind of stress, yet in reality, most of the time the symptoms of CDS either go unnoticed or are simply put down to ‘getting older’ and as a result, nothing is done about it.
What CAN be done about it?
The first step to treating Cognitive Dysfunction Syndrome is actually diagnosing it in the first place. CDS is a diagnosis of exclusion, which means that it cannot be diagnosed directly but rather by ruling out other conditions. There are many other conditions which can cause similar symptoms though, so it’s important to speak with your vet to try to figure out what’s really going on.
The disease that most closely resembles CDS in terms of symptoms is arthritis, and in fact there are many similarities between the two conditions as both the underlying causes and the treatments are quite similar. Other conditions that result in some of the same symptoms as CDS include kidney disease, hyperthyroidism, deafness, blindness or brain tumours. As some of these are easily treatable, it is definitely worth trying to get to the bottom of it.
If your vet diagnoses your cat with cognitive dysfunction, there are several things that you can do to help your feline friend as they learn to cope with their illness. The first is to feed a high-quality diet, and preferably one that is particularly high in antioxidants (which kill off those free radicals) and other supportive compounds such as vitamin E, beta carotene and essential fatty acids. Several other vitamins and molecules have also shown promise in treating the condition and this has led to the development of several therapies including special diets and nutritional supplements.
Perhaps equally if not even more important than changing what goes into a CDS cat’s body is changing their environment to support their condition.
Some of the things that owners can do at home to help cats with dementia (and, incidentally, arthritis as well) include:
- Feed your cat according to a routine schedule so they know what to expect when
- Increase the number of food bowls, water dishes and litter trays to make them more accessible from wherever the cat may be in the house. Litter trays should be wide with shallow rims to allow easier access and sand-like litter may be kinder to older toes.
- Try to keep their environment otherwise unchanged (especially for those cats who may also be blind or deaf) as change creates confusion which increases anxiety and stress. If changes do need to be made, try to introduce them slowly and gradually. A Feliway or Pet Remedy plug-in or spray can help anxious cats cope with daily life
- Provide several deeply padded and comfortable resting/hiding places throughout the house and make them easily accessible by building a ramp or steps up to those that would otherwise require a big jump.
- Give your cat the attention and reassurance they seek but do not overdo it as they also appreciate time to themselves. Don’t rush to get a new kitten thinking they need companionship, as this usually causes more stress than it is worth.
As with so many diseases of older cats, Cognitive Dysfunction Syndrome may be common, but it isn’t normal so if you think your cat may be showing some of the symptoms, the first thing to do is speak with your vet. Together you may be able to significantly improve the quality of your cat’s life with a few simple changes.
It can also help to think about your cat’s schedule and environment from their point of view rather than your own, as you may discover other ways to make their lives a bit easier. Next time your cat has a ‘senile moment’ and wakes you up at 3am with a howl, spare a thought for their ageing brain before getting cross!
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Discussion
I’m going through this at the moment. Our cat is 13 but gradually stopped going out the cat flap and then started getting stuck behind sofas/doors, now he won’t tackle stairs or jump onto anything and he needs to be put in the back garden to do a no.2. He always pees on the floor in the house (won’t use a litter tray anymore for some reason) so he’s now constrained to the kitchen and he’s constantly getting under our feet and doing strange things like following the hoover around. He won’t sit still and the only time he seems peaceful is when he’s sleeping. I’m considering putting him to rest for good but I keep questioning myself as to whether I’m just considering it because of the inconvenience of clearing up after him everyday and the fact he gets in the way. On the flip side he has no quality of life being stuck in a room all day peeing everywhere and I never hear him pur anymore regardless of how much attention he gets.
Hi my cat is 13 in june, for the last week she has become lethargic and not really bothered for anything, i have carried her to her water and food to make sure she drinks especially. She has eaten and does drink, she did seem abit wobbly on her back end. Tonight its as if she is scared of me, i went to walk by her and she like crouched abit and jumped like she is scared and tail was swishing. Im soooo worried, im going to take her to the vets but can anyone help please
This definitely sounds like a serious medical problem – definitely one for veterinary examination ASAP. It could be anything from pain to infection to high blood pressure to a stroke or even blindness, but she definitely needs veterinary care. Good luck!
My cat is a stray I saved in 2017 he was approximately a year and a half when I went to the vet and he was in relatively good shape for a stray. No tics, no diseases, etc. I had him sterilized, vaccinated and all checked up. I have him since but he always vocalizes all day… he gets bursts out of nowhere and spins the whole house around and almost breaks stuff, he « plays » with my other cat really rough sometimes but not enough for me to separate them. So annoying because I check his food, fine, both litters clean, plenty of tous to play with, I even put birds on the tv for entertainment… He just MEOWS like a female who is waiting for a Mate… (and he’s a male…)
I got my other cat who is a total angel and not disturbing at all, very calm…. I just don’t know what to do anymore.. He wakes us at 5am most of the time and he starts vocalizing constantly… It’s so annoying… 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
It does sound like that might just be his personality! But if you’re not sure, and the vet says there’s nothing medically wrong, the next step would be a clinical animal behaviourist.
My 13 year old cat had sudden onset of many of these symptoms. Confusion, circling, walking around as if he doesn’t know where he is, standing and staring at nothing. He is also not vocalizing much at all ( a previously very vocal cat). Weakness in hind quarters. Docile. He responds to petting but doesn’t come when called. He doesn’t respond to visual stimulus but does close his eyes when a light is shined at them. He is still eating, though I have to show him where the food is. These symptoms happened over less than an hour. I spoke to the vet this morning and he suspected possible ear infection and told me to give him metacam. The cat seems to have become worse throughout the day. More distant and more staring. Any thoughts? I am so sad to see him so confused. I was wondering if it might be a stroke?
While an ear infection could certainly do this, and is most likely, if it’s deteriorating that fast, definitely get back in touch with the vet – a stroke is a very real possibility in an older cat.
I’ve had my cat for 12 years and she is now worrying me. She refuses to come inside, when she does she would just sleep or eat, sometimes she sleeps outside and we make a bed for her there. She vomits often probably twice a week at least, and poops a lot. She will meow continuously every morning and sleep the rest of the day. She was always a very loving cat but now she doesn’t want to be rubbed and she won’t sit by me any more. It’s becoming worrisome. Please spare any advice it would be appreciated.
It does sound like there might be some cognitive decline, although other medical issues like kidney disease are also a possibility – I think time for a thorough check up at the vets, and see if there’s a simple medical cause, and then take it from there. Good luck.
My cat Mia is 20 and has never been to the vet, always been very healthy and happy , but after reading about the constant meowing and loud yowling at night , no other symptoms, she eats , she uses her tray , she climbs the fences, can be stubborn about using the cat flap but only if I am there , do you think this could also be early diagnosis signs of dementia.. and she is needing more attention, something she has never really wanted in the past ..plus has been moulting badly for over a year , but no bald patches despite the excess loss of fur ..
16 year old cat that floods litter box, walks with stiff gait, pooping on floor, hides most of the time now. Sleeps with head in a corner, knocks over water dish and throws up constantly. Me vet came to the house and we finally got blood samples. Vet never called me back until a month later after I reported the vet to BBB. Vet said test were normal, but the cat could have cancer. We can test her again in a month if she still has problems. I think vet forgot to take blood to the lab.. anywho my cat is stressing me out. My kids step in her poop and throw up and so do I. I’m at the point that I’m thinking about putting her down do to the constant stress the cat causes me and her poor quality of life. Any thoughts ?
You might want to see a better vet that can determine if your cat is suffering from osteoarthritis. My cat had similar symptoms at 11 years old and we found a vet who diagnosed her and recommended a new drug called Solensia. So far she has been getting an injection once a month for about a half year now, and she acts like herself again. Best of luck to you.
I think if she has a poor quality of life, it doesn’t really matter what the blood tests say: you have to make the decision based on her state, physical and mental, not the test results.
It sounds like you’ve given this a lot of thought, and if you think it’s best for her, you’re probably right.
I have an 18 year old cat who definitely has dementia. She is in and out constantly as forgets she has been out. Her litter tray is emptied every day and changed completely once a week but continues to be incontinent of faeces. This can be on floors, beds or sofas. She doesn’t appear to be in pain but her meow is more high pitched and she wakes you several times during the night for attention. She has started to vomits 2-3 times a week. She is still mobile but only ventured out to the front or back door. I have booked an appointment to put her to sleep next week but my head is spinning and not sure if I have made the right decision. I wish she would just fall asleep 😞
My cat is 16 and has been diagnosed with dementia some 18 months ago. I thought at first she was just playing up (shes a tortie) but now know it was early dementia. It started with excessive yowling at night, she was eating ok, no toilet problems but drinking a lot. The vet prescribed clomicalm to assist her anxiety which worked for about a year but now after having to increase the dose several times she is at her maximum dosage. Now the yowling is 2/3 times a night (2am, 4am) where I get up and talk to her. She is looking increasingly blank, sleeping all day and now not really connecting with me 80% of the time. Here’s my problem, she is still eating, she is still using her box properly and sometimes she is connecting with me but all in all, she looks sad and not my Maja I know. I have taken her to the vet and we have discussed euthanasia and he has said that there must be quality of life for not only her but for us (the sleep deprivation is killing me) but I am a total coward at making that appointment to say goodbye. I know heart of hearts it’s just going to get worse. It probably doesn’t help that 8 weeks ago we had to have our other cat put to sleep due to an aggressive tumour that appeared in 3 weeks, which was totally unexpected. So I’m hoping that someone who may have gone through this decision can maybe throw some advice or something that can understand this dilemma and guilt I am feeling at the moment to pick up the phone and make that appointment.
It’s awful, isn’t it – especially with such a slow and progressive decline. At the end of the day, though – what’s in HER best interest? Is she happy? Or is every day a trial to her?
My 14 year old cat had a UTI I took her to the doctor they gave her antibiotics and pain shot for the first day after the pain medicine wore off she’s now been very hyper pacing she can’t seem to sit still even at night. She Stares at the wall and her body seems to be just running labs inside. She’s 14 years old. “The strange behavior began when the antibiotics she was given two days ago at the veterinarian?
It’s not impossible, but it is unlikely that the antibiotics would have this effect – there are 2 antibiotic drugs that can cause neurological or ocular problems, metronidizole and enrofloxacin, and neither of these is generally used “first line” or a UTI. However, bad reactions to pain medications including opioids can cause these signs, as can kidney problems after NSAID use; alternatively, it could be that there is something else going on (such as a stroke or brain lesion) – I definitely think you need to call the vet back ASAP and explain what’s happening!
My cat seems deaf on his left side, he is constantly licking and cleaning himself, follows me round the house meowing, got really picky with food, sits and stares, sits and meows for short periods at nothing, I find him laying in random places round the house and he’s 18yrs old
OK, there are lots of possibilities, although dementia does seem likely – but definitely it’s time for a vet check to rule out other medical causes that need dealing with.
My baby Chico is 15 last year he had to get his left eye removed. He was fine afterwards. Then all of a sudden his right eye has gone bad and we think he’s totally blind. Now he’s meowing over and over at night. Eating like he’s never eaten before. Now he’s not using his litter box. And it seems in the past 2 weeks he lost weight and hair. He goes to the vet again next week to see what is going on. I’m so sad right now.
That’s so sad – good luck with him, but I think you might be coming to the end of what’s fair on him.
My cat Lily is 14, she has diabetes which I’ve been treating for 6 years. She started to start act strangely about six months ago, staring at walls. The vet diagnosed her as having arthritis, Metacam didn’t work so she’s had a Solensia injection just a couple of days ago. I’m wondering if there’s something else going on as described in this article. She wanders aimlessly, walks up to her toilet but then turns away. If I then put her in the tray she eventually uses it. The same with food. I have to keep offering it to her, she won’t go up and eat it. She doesn’t go outside or do anything really except sleep. I haven’t noticed any difference yet, although the vet said Solensia isn’t a miracle worker.
Solensia (Frunevetmab) is a great drug, but it does take a few days to kick in. However, from your description, I would be concerned about underlying problems such as dementia or micro-strokes. I think see how the new meds go, and when you go back for the second dose, if there’s been no significant improvement, have a chat to your vet about other possibilities. Good luck with her!
Thank you very much for taking the time to reply. I had to take her back to the vet who agreed there was something neurological going on and I suspect as you mention could have been micro strokes, dementia or maybe a tumour. She hadn’t improved at all after Solensia, although I still believe it to be great at treating pain. Sadly as she wasn’t fit for more investigation like an MRI and continuing to force her to eat, drink and go to the toilet felt wrong, we agreed euthanasia the only option. Thanks for replying to me and other people on here.
My older at goes to his food dish, eat some of his food, leaves for about 3 minutes comes back and starts looking for his food. I point his food out to him and then he dives into it. This is an ongoing thing with him I am very concerned about him. Any advice. Thank you Jane
You don’t say how old he is; however, this could well be consistent with feline cognitive dysfunction syndrome. I’d suggest a vet check to rule out other medical issues, and to discuss options for managing it going forward, if that is the diagnosis.
My cat Shmegal is 19 and has decided he preferes to live outside in the front garden in the pampas grass. I feed him several times a day and sit with him whilst he eats as two seagulls sit next to him waiting for his left overs. I give him lots of cuddles but if I dare to bring him into the house he scratches me and fights to go out again. His mother Tink was nearly 21 and died two weeks ago, could he be grieving for her.? I might add that Tink choose to be outside in the last few weeks of her life but did come in at night. Ive put a cat bed outside for him but he isn’t using it and preferes to be curled up inside the pamphas. He’s a just become such a loner and it makes me so sad.
I think that a medical assessment is needed here – he might be grieving, and he might well have some degree of dementia, but the change in behaviour may also mean that he is in pain, and that’s something that can be managed.
I feel terrible reading these comments, my cat of 20 years recently lost her companion 3 years ago. They tolerated each other rather than liked each other. Anyway, Cleo has started howling at 3 am, then 5 am then 6 am and so on. I put it down to missing the other cat and thought to get a companion. (Cleo has never got on with other cats, so this was a final thought as to what to do)
I will feed her, and she will forget she has eaten a few minutes later. If I go out the living room door or use the bathroom, coming back into the living room means more food, every time. I find myself creeping around so as not to wake her, as she will make so much noise for more food. I am throwing food away as she is not eating it even though demanding I get up and put some more in the bowl. I will sometimes pretend to empty a sachet in the bowl, just to encourage her to eat what is already in there. There is constantly dry food and snack down but I must get up and be seen emptying the food when she demands. I won’t lie, I have been shouting at her and tapping her nose as she will wake me up all night, hide under the bed, or sit in the bedroom doorway just meowing until I get up.
She will demand to go out or I will find her in the bedroom just staring at the ceiling meowing constantly and so very loud like a baby crying. She has always been vocal, and we talk to each other, but not like this. Her noises have changed, and they sound like she is distressed.
I firmly believe she sometimes knows what she is doing, and it is an attention game, but the vet said her thyroid is fine, she is healthy and lump, tooth decay-free and that she seems fine. But this behaviour is getting worse, and I am becoming sleep deprevated and at a loss as to what to do.
She is more needy, poking me, meowing at me, and the neighbour is complaining about her crying when I am away. I feel so mean having had to tell her off, but she just won’t stop even with food, attention or me getting up four times a night. She knows she is being naughty as she runs and hides the moment I am up or waits for me to open the living room door to make a run for my bed to hide and then sit there and meows constantly where I cannot reach her. (Makes me laugh at her cheek) It is like now the other cat is no longer, ( she was top cat, and mummy’s favourite) that she has the run of the house and me. She is a Burmese Blue and very sharp and used to antagonise the other cat all the time. So she is a little minx with the personality to go with it. So could it be possible, that she is going senile, crossed with attention-seeking and her a cheeky personality? I am not ready to have her put to sleep, and I do not think she is, and there are good days when she sleeps through most of the night. Please help……As I said, if I let her in my room she just hides under the bed and constantly meows. Nothing stops her, food, attention, shouting, picking her up, nothing. It is like a game and if I shut her in the living room, she meows from the other side of the door for hours and gets destressed and I feel awful. If I do not give her constant attention at her will, she pulls her fur out and becomes upset that I am ignoring her. But I sometimes need to work, study or read for work. crazy
What about tucking her in, does she like to hide/burrow under blankets? Sometimes when my 19 year old cat is inconsolable and yelling, she just really wants to be tucked in. Toss a blanket on her and she goes to sleep for hours.
That’s interesting, not something I’ve ever heard of! If she seems chilled out and relaxed, not panicking, then okay!
I’ve suspected dementia or hearing loss for awhile as her yowl will be sudden and very loud, mostly attention seeking but sometimes for no apparent reason. Her arthritis has gotten worse, she is having difficulty laying down and getting up, so vet put her on gabapentin. She is now having difficulty using her hind legs. Is it disease progressive (arthritis or dementia) or the drug? Having difficulty getting an appointment with the vet clinic. She is still drinking and will eat wet food put in front of her while lying down.
Might want to look into a glucosamine supplement for the arthritis. They sell liquid form for animals on amazon. My 19 year old cat regained a lot of mobility after taking it daily for a week. Humans take it too, it helps the joints.
Good suggestion. Vet suggested potassium but it tastes terrible and she is a Lady who will not be forced to do anything.
The evidence base is a little patchy, but certainly glucosamine does seem to have positive effects in some cats. However, I wouldn’t recommend using it as the only pain relief in a sore cat as its painkilling effects are very limited.
Gabapentin can make cats sleepy or lethargic, or even a bit “drunk”, but doesn’t usually affect the function of the back legs specifically: I would be suspicious about progression of the arthritis or even maybe the dementia. And yes, I would book her in for a follow up with the vet, or at least arrange for a phone call to chat about it.
My poor kitty is now over 18 years old. She has been on a monthly injectable (Convenia) for several years, as without it she gets a horrible cough. She does display arthritis, and I try to make things as comfy as I can for her. She still loves her bed, loves her food, loves to be brushed, but makes huge messes (urine) around her litter box. I have tried every box there is, I surround it with potty pads, but at least several times a month she just goes in the strangest places. I hate the thought of euthansia for her, she was 8 when I adopted her, so she’s been dumped off once by what she thought was her home. She still loves being loved. I use the enzyme cleaners, but I still smell urine odors. I just am at a loss as what to do.
At 18 years old, sadly it is likely that she is coming towards the end – and euthanasia is a lot kinder in most cases than letting cats suffer.
However, there may be other things going on here. Does she have a ramp leading up into her litter tray? Because if she is arthritic, on a bad day she may not be able to climb in. So a low sided tray with a ramp might make life much easier for her. Urinating in other places – such as around doors, windows, or sometimes televisions, is often a sign of stress: could you consider using a pheromone like Feliway to help reassure her?
Overall, I think she probably needs a full health and dementia assessment by your vet (possibly including a behavioural assessment by a clinical animal behaviourist) to determine the best way to help her!
Good luck!
My poor cat Smokey Is 10 and the last 36 hours he’s not ate drank peed or pood but just keeps sleeping on top of the fridge freezer on top of a pillow something he always does but he’s not showing signs of pain unless I lift him and he goes into attack mode but he does this often he’s very feisty so he is I keep catching him spraying outside and can actually see it coming out like a shower spray then his tail shakes he’s very dominant and wants to fight all other male cats he even fights with foxes but he’s not been out for 36 hours I had to carry the pillow from top of fridge freezer and took him on to my bed with me. When I got up this morning he jumped down for his breakfast then didn’t touch it went to the window he usually goes straight out to do his thing his nose is warm and dry when I call him he ignores me he’s never been a sick cat please help me it’s my kids cat they’d be devastated xxxxx
If it’s a sudden onset change in behaviour, it’s less likely to be dementia – an acute condition like a stroke (quite common in the older cat) is more likely. I would STRONGLY advise getting him checked by your vet because if he does have high blood pressure (the most common cause) or some other underlying problem, the sooner it gets addressed the better for him! Good luck!
I’m not sure if my 14 year old girl has this, but she displays a lot of the symptoms. The main things are going to the toilet around the house at night, she has recently been wormed and is always let out into the garden to do her business before she’s let back in for the night, but still happens quite often. I have never owned a litter tray as she has always used the bathroom outside up until recently. she’s also become insatiably hungry over the past months, she will be fed a good amount at her scheduled time and eat it all only for her to return immediately for more.
I have to say, that does sound pretty suspicious. It might be worth a vet check up though as other conditions (such as high blood pressure of overactive thyroid) can result in similar issues and are very treatable.
My cat is almost 20 yrs old, and seemed to have dementia for at least a year now. She leaves the room we’re in and starts howling as if she’s forgotten we are right here…but lately she seems to have the human condition called Sundowning. I sit with her in the evening a lot, but she stands up, stares at me, stands on my laptop, goes back to her heated blanket, reaches up at taps my face or my shoulder. She seems to not know what’s going on, even though I am right there. It’s very quiet. She doesn’t meow, just repeatedly goes through these motions until it’s fully dark and she can sleep. Anyone else see this in their kitty?
My husband & I have a 16 1/2 yr old Siamese girl. She has stopped jumping on our bed & playing. She hasn’t eaten for a couple of days jot drinking water. She wonders inside the house. Not an out door kitty. She stays put for like 5 minutes & than she is on the go wagging her tail all the time. I know it’s most likely time to let her go, but it’s gonna hurt so bad. I know she has dementia & there is no cure.
My sweet girl is 13 y.o. she has had asthma for about 10 years and she gets dexamethasone prn, and chronic rhinitis for about 6 years. She gets azthrymicin (sp) for weeks at a time. She eats well, on a special diet for UTI’s; Royal Canin SO I believe and fancy feast wet, 2 small cans per day.
Lately she has been acting strangely, when she comes in from being outside, or maybe gets up from a nap, she will start licking excessively when I pet her and what really bothers me is that during this weird licking of her legs or thighs or whatever, she will tense up her body and stiffen her legs and lick and growl, almost like a person would do when stretching in the morning. The stiffening of her legs and body. It only goes on for a few seconds but it has gotten to be so often that I’m worried why her body would react that way to simply being petted or even just a soft pat on the back.
Any ideas on what this is from. One other thing, she religiously has gotten grass stuck in her sinuses when coughing up grass that she has eaten, this has been going on for around 5 years
…as much as two times per month and from 1″ up to 7.5″!!! The vet has removed most of them . 4 to 5 times I have been able to pull it out myself. And the last time the vet removed grass… 3 weeks ago he found a tumor the size of a nickel growing from her nostrils into her throat. She is my angel, and she seems happy, sometimes she still plays, …any ideas on what causes the licking and body stiffening episodes??
Feline dementia is definitely a possibility, but I’d also wonder about skin disease (e.g. allergic dermatitis or even parasites). I think a thorough skin check up with your vet is indicated!
This all makes sense no we have a 16year old cat who we were told about 6 years ago when found in a poorly state as a stray, is about 7/8 another vet now think he is 16 big jump, was diagnosed with tyrod a couple of years ago now having problems with urinating and pooping around the house in inappropriate places I have thought for a long time he is deaf now I think blind as well, this happen’s mostly of a night time when we are asleep he eats well drinks alot but very sleepy we just don’t know if he is pain because he can’t tell u is it time to say goodbye he is adored by the grandchildren and love deeply very chilled the above makes so much sense grateful for any help and thoughts
My cat is 17 years old and displaying all the symptoms of CDS although not diagnosed by our vet yet. However, she is pooping all the time even when she is having cuddles with us. She has also lost all her weight and she is no more than a bag of furry bones. She is still grooming, does not go out and is eating well. Most of the time she sits in the hall way, but can see us. Is it time to do the kindest thing for her as her quality of life seems limited.
Unfortunately your cat is no longer taking nutrition from her food. I had a similar experience with an elderly cat some years ago. The food will fill her belly but it literally is going in one end and coming out of the other. Although we’d arranged a vets appointment as we felt her quality of life had deteriorated, she passed away the night before, not long after being made a fuss of.
I think that’s something you have to think about, yes: there does come a time when it’s kinder to call it a day. Faecal incontinence is distressing for most cats, so I too would question whether she has a good quality of life right now. Good luck with her.
I can relate to practically all comments. I have a 15 y/o who has always been lethargic, all necessary testing done for kidneys/urinary etc, all ok. Dr did not even approach subject of dementia with me or want to. All dementia symptoms started about 2 mos. ago.
Howling (day/night) is the biggest thing that bothers me. She is eating etc, alert and even walks around the patio.
I just added arthritis med just in case its that but I am very convinced its dementia, I saw it once before in an 18 y/o.
I hate to put this precious cat down but I can see the handwriting on the wall.
Good luck to all the other feline parents of senior cats!
Hi my male cat is 14 and the past year has been been to vets several times for different tests for weight loss, not using tray, lost interest in toys, not jumping on furniture or going upstairs just wandering around and staring into space. He’s had blood test, thyroid test. Uti test, a scan to check kidneys, liver, spleen etc every thing came back clear. Vet suggested it cat dementia. He is eating well but still losing weight (3.8kg now) he very vocal now, can be aggressive don’t like being picked up or stroked. He used to be scared of everything ie strangers the hoover loud noises, he would always hide now nothing bothers him he even lets you hoover right next to him. He doesn’t look happy, he doesn’t seem like he just exist. I wonder if he is in pain. I love him and he is family but i hate seeing him like this. Would it be kinder to let him go?
Sadly, I think you’ve done everything you can, and it doesn’t look like he’s happy or content any more. If that’s the case, it probably is time to think about his best interests… good luck.
Our male cat Bob is 21 years old and showing clear signs of dementia. He is now pooping and peeing all over the house and it is not because of lack of litter boxes, or because he can’t jump into them, or other commonly mentioned issues. He has 3 different litter boxes, secluded in different areas of the house, and we clean them religiously. He just doesn’t seem to remember where they are.
His personality changed 180 degrees. Whereas he was staying away and only coming to hang out occasionally, he is now very clingy and acting rather strange. He is also super super skinny, although we feed him regularly, high quality food recommended by the vet. He starts eating and then seems to forget he ate, walks away, seems confused. He had a spell where he didn’t eat for four days but we took him to the vet and they gave him some ointment and new foods and he started eating again.
My husband says it is time to put him down, but I am really trying to find solutions. He pees and poops daily and then the dog is eating the poop. When he does poop or pee in the litter, he never covers it anymore. Is there anything else we can do?
There’s not a lot more. 21 is a great age; it might be worth thinking about calling it a day before it gets any worse for him. Good luck – it isn’t easy.
MY 21 YEAR OLD HAS DEMENTIA BUT IS STILL “HOLDING ON : I AM TRYING DIFFERENT FOODS WHICH SOME CAN WORK – HE IS THE LONGEST ONE WE HAVE HAD OUT OF AT LEAST 7 DUE TO VARIOUS ILLNESSES SO I TREASURE EVERY DAY – I BELIEVE LOVE,PATIENCE WILL PREVAIL !!
Hi, I have a male cat who’s approx 19yrs old and has been with me since he was 12 weeks old. Normally a very nice cat who loves fussing and demands attention. Over the past two years, every quarter he gets very nasty and attacks/bites my right hand and I’ve needed antibiotics each time for the resulting infection. He’s doesn’t appear to be in pain and still has his daft half hours running around the house. Any idea’s what could cause him to do this? My only idea is that due to working from home, he gets jealous of my laptop?
Dementia is a possibility, but as you say, a change in routine can be very distressing to some cats, even if they’re mentally healthy. It might be worth considering getting him seen by a qualified feline behaviourist? Your vet will be able to recommend one.
I believe my 17 year old cat has dementia. He often displays signs of all the symptoms you mention in this article and his personality has changed. He drinks a lot but the vet has said no growths, maybe start of kidney problems. He also cant hold in number twos. He manages to go outside still to urinate but I don’t think his muscles are strong enough anymore for doing a poo. As a result he sometimes has loose stools and goes in the house. It causes a lot of arguments between my family and particularly my partner who is not a cat lover. To me he is a member of the family, who was with me before I had children. He meows/ cries all the time and more recently has started to go into a frenzy over food as if he is starving even though he has been fed and there is always dry food and water available. He’s now trying to take food from us and is a pest at mealtimes. I have more recently found him constantly on the work surface in the kitchen looking for food. He is only really settled when he’s with me but we now can’t let him upstairs and I don’t feel the quality of his life is the same. He looks uncomfortable in himself. The vet has him on daily gabapentin for comfort. I don’t want to keep him going unnecessarily or let him suffer. Has the time come?
Have you had his thyroid tested? Cats that are ravenous, but don’t gain weight…..it’s one of the classic signs of thyroid disease. It is a treatable disease.
Sadly, it does sound like it might not be fair to go much longer. If his quality of life is declining – and it definitely sounds like it is – I think it really is worth thinking about whether letting him go was the kindest thing.
If you decide not, then it’s time to talk to your vet about medications; there aren’t any licensed for treating dementia in cats but there are reports of some neuroactive drugs that might help alleviate the symptoms temporarily.
My cat has had dementia for 3 years ,he’s 17 years old ,now he’s incontinent ,I put incontinent sheets down ,what else can I do??.
He has no interest in anything but still eats and drinks .
He doesn’t groom himself ,doesn’t use his scratchpost,we bath him because of the urine and brush him ,he’s extremely thin ,what else can I do.
We haven’t had a full nights sleep because of the howling as he doesn’t like being alone
Sadly, it does sound like he’s coming to the end of the road. If he has no interest in anything, does he actually have a good quality of life? Or is he just existing?
It might well be time to think about whether the kindest thing to do would be to let him go. Your vet will be able to advise you on the medical side, and will also be able to help you with a quality of life assessment, if that’s helpful.
Good luck.
My 14 year old male cat started having seizures approx 1.5 years ago. For which he’s on Keppra ER 500mg nightly, as well as prednisolone 5mg daily. With every breakthrough seizure (takes intranasal versed to stop them), it takes him longer and longer to recover from the post ictal phase. Which for him consists of wandering/pacing, temporary paralysis of hind legs (specifically on one side) and temporary blindness initially. He’s maybe had two that I’ve witnessed in the last 3 months or so. I’ve noticed that the following days after, he seems disoriented and anxious lately.
At night before bed (he always sleeps next to me) he seems more restless, suddenly confused, turns in circles the more anxious he is, and recently has been having BMs just outside the litter box and one time, peed in my kitchen-seems to almost forget what he’s supposed to do in the litter box. And in the am when he wakes, he’s very weak in his hinds and unsteady.
But, during the day, after he eats-he seems to “come to”.
My vet also diagnosed him with feline dementia this year. His bloodwork is perfect. The only thing he hasn’t had is an mri to check for a brain tumor, as I know his days are numbered and I wouldn’t torture him with chemo. It should also be noted that he does not have hip joints, as a kitten he had a congenital necrotic hip disease and had surgery to create false sockets (you’d never know! Could still jump after!), so likely has arthritis as well.
Otherwise, he’s a cuddly, sweet cat. I know his time is coming soon, and there’s not much I can do other than keep him comfortable. But here’s my question:
Can cats get “sun downers” just like humans? As this seems like exactly what he has. Daytime-does well. Nighttime, seems to be confused.
There’s absolutely no reason why not. Cats are naturally crepuscular animals (most active at dawn and dusk), and so it’s quite plausible that his central nervous system arousal at those times would influence his neurological or mental health.
Good luck with him.
My boy is 19 and has been diagnosed with FCD last year, he has started becoming very vocal with new sounds all day and all night which I understand is part of the disease. If I pick him up and give cuddles he relaxes for a very short period before he’s off walking around the flat chatting away. He seems very unsettled and has taken to sleeping on a chair under the dinner table whereas before he came to bed and slept all night between me and my husband, now he sleeps in 30 minute stints, maybe slightly longer, he is distancing himself from us and no longer wants to be with us watching tv. He’s also gone deaf He takes metcam for arthritis and zylkene for stress but I’m concerned , is he sad, stressed or in pain ? How will I know when he’s had enough I don’t want to be a selfish cat mummy
It’s really hard to know, unfortunately. It might be worth talking to your vet about a Quality of Life Assessment? These are questionnaire-like tools that your vet can give you to help measure semi-objectively your cat’s quality of life. Good luck – its really hard, I know.
My cat is 15. He has had 2 episodes of severe confusion. Hes been trying to fit in small spaces he would never go into. He’s a 25lb cat so he easily gets stuck. I recently found him stuck behind the toilet. I thought he was chasing a mouse but he was so confused. He walks low to the ground and doesn’t respond when I try to comfort him. The vet said he has arthritis in his back legs, and did full blood work. It came back perfect. He also has had diabetes that we have managed for 8 years now. His levels are great. The episodes only lasted a few hours. After reading your article I can see he may have a tough road ahead. It’s heartbreaking. He doesn’t have any other symptoms. He’s never been a big talker so I haven’t heard an increase in meowing, and he uses the litter box.
Any advice?
There are some medicines that might help, but they’re not well studied in cats. The best approach is to try and give him a routine that he can follow, to engage his brain where possible (e.g. with puzzle feeding), and to be very careful to follow your vet’s instructions to the letter on his diabetes and weight management. Good luck!
Our Persian is 11 years old, recently he meows loudly without leading us to what he wants which he usually did be it food/ brush/or to go outside
we have a door between lounge and conservatory,he meows to go out then to come back in then out, some nights he never settles back and forth through the door, not wanting food or to go out.
The older he gets he seems to be a lot more vocal
My well behaved and loving 17+ y/o male cat who 6 weeks ago slept on the bed next to me, sometimes with his head on the pillow, suddenly spends excessive time at a neighbors RV, even on their steps. They say they don’t feed him and he does come home to eat, only to immediately want back outside. He no longer lays on my lap in the morning (if he is here) and acts as if we are just a soup kitchen. This is very strange. We have 2 other f/m younger cats and he has always been “friendly but indifferent to them. Confused and disappointed.
That could well be Feline Cognitive Dysfunction – probably time for a vet assessment.
My cat is adopted and she is about 2 years old.she is good in behaviour and even eat good.But her breqthing sounds alittle and i hear it only when i go near her or the place is silent how can i take care of her
It depends why she has noisy breathing. It could be chronic low grade cat flu, or feline asthma, or something else. I’d recommend a vet check to try and work out what’s going on. In the meantime, make sure she’s kept in an area that isn’t too dusty, and hopefully your vet will be able to determine what the cause is and how to manage it. Good luck!
Bonita is my 19 year old cat. She has been the most intelligent, clean, intuitive, clever cat I have ever had. We lived in our old house for 13 years and previously we lived in a first floor flat for 3 years where she adopted herself to us.
Since we moved in to the new house a year ago, Bonita goes out only with a leash because the new neighbourhood is full of cats that may like to test her with a fight. She used to go out before during the day and sleep indoors in the nights. In her good years she would earn the respect of other cats and a small fight will be enough to prove who was the leader. Now she wouldn’t have a chance as she has lost muscles and strength, she’s tiny and her bones feels thin and sharp such as an old lady cat.
She started yawling about 7 monts ago, she would seek more attention and she tried to tell me she wasn’t ok. We took her to the vet and after a scan they found what they thought it was a tumor in her intestine. The vet said it was most likely a cancerous tumor. It was too risky for a biopsy because of her age, so we went back home and decided to take extra good care of her.
After that, during the first 3 months giving her massages with essential oils I could feel the “tumor” but now after 5 months from that I can’t feel the tumor anymore. There are no extra symptoms apart of her increasing yawling. Maybe she has changed a bit, could be that she starts to be deaf, may be pain in her hips, she wants more attention, she begs for food all the time, she is less tolerant with her daughter, Bella who is 16 years old.
It is hard to hear her yawling all day, I can perceive her discomfort. I just hope this yawling is not because she may feel scared that she may soon die.
Her yawling drives us crazy, during the day and during the night. Sometimes I stand up in the middle of the night and cuddle beside her in the sofa, give her a bit of food, I talk to her until she decides to jump back to her blanket or her basket.
I wish I could do something else to calm her and make her feel less anxious and a bit more comfortable. I don’t want her to suffer. I can read her very well, and I know she will tell me when is the time to leave, but meanwhile I wish she didn’t feel confused, sad or scared. Is there anything else I could do?
Essential oils are toxic to cats.
I’d strongly advise you to get her seen by your vet – there are now some medications that may help. In addition, they’ll be able to help you prepare a support plan for how best to support her at home. Good luck!
I have a 17 years cat with dementia but he refused to eat I tried to but food in his mouth and he don’t open to eat I made a lot of blows with food every where and he still not eating
I think it’s time for a check up with the vet to make sure there isn’t anything else going on; but sadly, if not, it might be that he’s coming to the end of the road. Good luck with him, and I hope they find something treatable.
How long can a cat live with dementia? Mine is 16 years old. She’s eating, sitting on my lap but very erratic, miauwing a lot – never used to. She’s been like this for about 8 months. I don’t want her to suffer. But can’t bear the thought of putting her down unless I have to
Potentially, months IF her quality of life is good enough, and there’s someone willing to look after her. Ultimately, you have to decide at what point is it unfair to keep her going. Good luck with her.
Hi, I wondered if there has been any research or experience with using cholinesterase inhibitors or glutamate blockers (such as memantine for humans) in cats? My cat has all of the symptoms described, and has a complete work up, so I’m pretty sure this is his diagnose at 15 1/2 years of age.
Cats are much more sensitive to neurotransmitter inhibition than humans are, and many more drugs are toxic as their liver’s capacity to conjugate primary metabolites is much more limited. Reportedly, monoamine oxidase inhibitors such as selegiline have been used with some success, but most effective treatments seem to be vascular, such as propentofylline. It seems likely that in cats especially there is a significant vascular dementia-type component (possibly as a result of undiagnosed chronic hypertension). I’m unaware of any studies using glutamate inhibitors or anticholinesterases in cats, I’m afraid.
My cat is around 15 (we got him when he was three and don’t know when his actual birthday is, so I have decided it’s May 3rd. He will be 15 then.) He has become clingier as he has gotten older, but I don’t mind as we are very close. When I’m in my room with the door closed, he will sit outside my door and meow until I let him in. However, in the past few months, he has been meowing outside my door when I am not in my room. I will call out to him to let him know I’m in a different part of the house, but minutes after he finds me, he will be meowing outside of my door again. Recently, he will meow outside of my door even if it is open. I will call out to him from inside the room saying, “the door is open!” but he meows until I stand in the doorway and watch him come in. Just tonight, he was meowing outside my door. I went to let him in, but he just sat there, so I left the door open. I could hear him meowing, and when I went to the door, he was sitting outside of the closed bathroom door where my mom was taking a bath. He had seen me in my room just seconds before, yet he thought I was in another room. Is this a sign of cat dementia? Should I call a vet?
It would be consistent, but there are some other diseases that can cause confusion like that too, so yes, I think a vet check is a good idea.
I also wanted to mention that he has started trying to go behind my bed between the headboard and the wall. I know cats tend to explore, but it makes me uncomfortable because it is quite messy behind and underneath my bed and I don’t want him getting stuck. Him walking behind my bed has been a nightly occurrence for a few weeks now.
Since friday evening my cat has gone down hill, he is stairs at walls, hardly eats, he paces the house all day and most likely most of the night. He is so unbalanced I am afraid to let him out. I took him to the vets and they took bloods from him told me he’s healthy for a boy of his age, he’s 16, they offered me pills for him to help with anxiety… I dont think it’s helping.
I’m not sure what to do, he seem unresponsive to everyone.
I think if he’s not responding to treatment, then a follow up with the vets is a good idea.
We have an 17 year old cat that left his family 3 years ago and moved in with us. He’s a lovely old boy and he has always got on okay with our other cats. Last year we realised he had gone deaf but he still comes when we beckon him and he only goes in the same area in the garden. We think he now has dementia, he is showing signs but one thing he has decided to do, is sleep on any hard surface he can. I’ve had to clear virtually everything of my dressing table and bedside unit and now he’s sleeping on the TV stand. I try and cuddle him up with me on the bed, but he won’t have it. He is extremely forceful until he gets his own way. Is he okay sleeping on these hard surfaces? If I put covers or cushions on them he pushes them off. Many thanks.
I think there are two questions here… Firstly, is it ideal for an older cat to sleep on a hard surface as opposed to a padded one. The answer is no, although it’s unlikely to do him any harm. The second is whether you can do anything about it… and again, I doubt that you can.
If it helps, it’s worth remembering that cats are experts at finding comfort in even the most apparently uncomfortable situations! If he’s decided that’s where he’s comfy, I think we probably have to accept that. It is worth keeping a close eye on him though, to make sure he’s not losing weight or his coat isn’t getting matted (which are common problems in older cats with early dementia-type signs).
My 15 year old male cat has started going in our basement, wedging himself in between the furnace and the wall and meowing loudly in an unusual voice. I go down and ask him what’s up, what the heck are you doing silly kittty? But he just stops when I catch him doing it and just leaves. He does it in the daytime. Also he has become quite demanding for his treats and is very vocal. He has developed many new sounds and talks to us when he never used to. He’s not stressed. He’s a happy, healthy, content cat with much love from the family. He was a super scaredy cat for most of his life but now has no problem with strangers and is so easy going. The basement meowing is just SO peculiar, we can’t figure it out. Is he seeing things down there that are not real? Is he calling out for mice? Should we be worried?
I’m afraid to say that this is probably an early sign of feline dementia or senility. I’d strongly advise you get him to your veterinarian to be checked out.
My cat is 15 and half. In the last month she has gone from being a clean cat always using her litter tray to now always using the floor. We have moved the chair that she has into the kitchen (tiled floor) and a couple of fluffy blankets on the floor as she has been urinating on the carpet. She has been howling randomly lasting probably 5 to 10 seconds 3 or 4 times a day (although painkiller from the vets seems to have stopped this which we are now giving her every other day. She sleeps most of the day. Sometimes she just seems to be staring into space, not at anything in particular. She also seems to be under your feet (and I mean under your feet) more, so you can be doing something, turn around and she’s there, its a wonder we haven’t fallen over her, she doesn’t seem to realise she should move like she used to. The vet has diagnosed arthritis and possible arthritis or spongalosis of the bottom spine which he has said is making it painful for her to urinate (she now only urinates once every 24 to 36 hours), but there is no UTI as we have taken a sample for testing. I feel cruel keeping her in the kitchen, she has 2 litter trays in there (she has a poo in only one of them so still knows how to use but just wee’s on the floor), but otherwise she will ruin the carpet, and she has food and water also. Do we just keep going? So basically, she eats, sleeps and wee’s on the floor.
I think you really have to think about her quality of life – is your cat happy or not, is her life worth living? Can she still do the things she loves, or not?
If you think she does have a decent quality of life, then perhaps have a conversation with your vet about any other options to help her cope and stay comfortable.
If, however, the answer to these questions is no, then I think it’s probably time to think about letting her go. I always think it’s the best gift we can give our failing pets – letting them pass peacefully, rather than suffering to the bitter end.
I wish you all the best – she’s lucky she has you as an owner, to consider her point of view.
Hi. Im 17, and my cat is 18. She was diagnosed with kidney failure , and has all these symptoms. Im very worried and scared for my cat. Could she have dementia ?
Hi Cora, I’m afraid only your own vet could let you know their thoughts on her, as they know her history etc. Please speak to them for your peace of mind.
My cat is only 11 but Ive had a feeling he is developing this. He doesnt yowl at night but he hisses incessantly, at me and just randomly and seems confused a lot. Sometimes when I go to stroke him he honestly looks at me like he doesn’t know who I am, and gets quote alarmed. He is sleeping virtually all day now, even in the summer, and gets grumpy when I try encourage him to eat food or move around (with the use of treats.) He’s only 11, quite fit otherwise, do these symptoms seem like the onset of feline dementia? Ive taken him to the vet recently and she said he was fit apart from needing some dental work, but I didn’t mention my dementia fears.
Hi Tahlee, I think it would be worth speaking to your vet again with your thoughts and concerns. It may be suggested for him to have further tests, even bloods taken as these can show things not visible on normal examination. Your vet will be able to advise on this. Best of luck, Dave RVN.
Hello my beautiful Sophie has been diagnosed with dementia. She’s been yowling she panics if she can’t find me I have to leave lights on so at night so she can find things the litter box is on the patio which is in enclosed but she panics when she goes out because she has to bank come back inside to the bedroom and if she doesn’t see me on the bed and she walks into the bathroom she freaks out. It’s so sad to see her like this she’s been doing a lot of twitching of her head and shoulders she sleeps a lot she her eating habits have changed. I don’t particularly care for my vet but she put her on gabapentin 100 mg a day and all my cat does is sleep gets up to eat occasionally when I call her or come and get her because she doesn’t realize it’s time for dinner and I have to give her medication twice a day. She really does not interact with anybody except me. She always sleeps on my pillow every night and has for the past 17 years. Recently she has clawed my face in the middle of the night I don’t know whether she’s dreaming or what’s going on with that but it’s just really sad to see her so miserable. I might take her to another vet to see what their diagnosis is I have two other cats also I have to consider. I’ve noticed that her breathing is extremely heavy, but the vet said she sounds fine. The cost of just going to a veterinarian is $150 and all it is is an exam and one bottle of medication. Personally I think that’s a crime I can see a specialist for Less.
Hi Lorraine. I can appreciate why you’re so worried about your cat and that all you clearly want is the best for her. If you’re still worried, and don’t feel she has improved on the medication, I’d recommend going back to your vet for further advice and explain your concerns or seek a second opinion (this can be another vet at your practice, or at another vet practice) if after this you don’t feel she is improving. There are always options to talk through in cases such as this, so please do feel comfortable with seeking further advice on other possible steps that may improve your cat’s quality of life.
Thank you for responding so quickly Sarah. The medication Sophie is on is Gabapentin 50 mg 2 times a day which is difficult enough to give but now she is refusing to eat the wet food most likely she tastes the medicine . She will eat the dry food but I have not seen her drinking much water. For several months she has been sleeping so heavily she snores louder than any husband I’ve had. I think Gabapentin is the incorrect medication it is for nerve pain because I take gabapentin for nerve damage in my leg . Now new symptoms are surfacing, it’s more like a snort or a cough and then, gasping for air. I’m really not pleased with this vet that I have taken her to I explained my situation paid 95% of the bill and asked if they would work with me on the balance they were extremely rude. Going to another vet is starting all over new patient higher fees. I do not want Sophie to be suffering simply because it’s been going on for a while and I’ve never figured out what it was until I finally brought her to the vet. This is a major conundrum I do not wish to put her down unless she is suffering and has no quality of life. But running from the bed to the litter box to the bed again and going into a dead sleep and then face planting into the dry food that’s all she does. She keeps touching me with her paw on my shoulder and on my hand patting me I don’t know what she saying I wish I knew. Any other suggestions? Thank you so much. Lorraine
My cat Billy is 23 years old. He has all of these signs listed above. In all his life he has never meowed loudly but is now. He has been fine up until a few days ago. He wants to go out so we allowed him to go but he got lost. We found him and brought him home, now we have blocked the cat flap off to him. We feed him all the time, he will eat and then look up wanting more but doesn’t realise he has food down. He has lost a lot of weight but he has been quite happy. We now feel that he is nearing him time. This is very sad as he is a big part of our family.
I have a eight almost 9 year old burmilla with all except one of the above. Any advice?
Hi Anneka. The first step, if you haven’t already done so, is to have a chat to your vet. The symptoms described here can be similar to the symptoms of other conditions which may require a different approach, so a diagnosis to start with is essential. If your cat is diagnosed with CDS, there are dietary supplements that your vet can recommend that can help keep your cat bright, alert and active. I’d also recommend thinking carefully about the home environment; avoid moving things in the house, and you can try to increase other environmental clues such as leaving the radio on in a certain room to help your cat navigate the house. I’d also recommend regular interaction and encouraging playing where possible, as keeping your cat mentally stimulated can help. Hopefully some simple steps such as these will help, and your vet will be happy to give you further advice.
Hi My cat Guiness is now 18.5 years old and has had symptoms of cognitive decline for a while but is otherwise in excellent health (as confirmed on his senior cat MOT this morning). the issue I face is his constant calling and need for company is waking all the household and seems to be worsening especially since we lost our other cat around 6 months ago. Though the were not brother and sister and fought almost daily for the 14 years they were together, they were company and whenever one was at the vets the other would go looking for them and become not only more vocal but also more affectionate. Should we look to getting a kitten or something for company? I have read mixed reviews on this idea and I don’t want to stress him further but want to try something. Our Vets suggested Feliway Pheromone plug ins but other than diminish our bank balance they do not appear to have had any affect so we are going to stop them.
Hi Antoine, it’s great to hear that Guiness passed his senior cat MOT with flying colours! It can be tricky to manage some of the symptoms you’ve described, and despite the fact that he and your other cat never particularly got on, cats can still grieve, and his behaviour in that respect sounds quite natural. I wouldn’t recommend rushing into getting another cat or a kitten, as sometimes this can actually cause more stress. But there are more things you can try! With the Feliway, you don’t say how long you’ve been using it – but if not for long, then I’d persist for a little longer. It can take up to 6 weeks to really start to be effective, and it’s important to have it plugged in where Guiness spends most of his time. At home, try to keep his environment very much the same, as too many changes can exacerbate the problem, and if his symptoms worsen at all, he may, like many cats, gain a lot of comfort from having all of his resources in one area, or even one room, so he has his own space to retreat to. To encourage a more restful time at night, you could try increasing his activity slightly during the day – a little bit of playtime with you, or using puzzle feeders can help, or even something as simple as spending some time with him in the evening giving him a fuss or a groom may help to encourage better sleep-wake cycles, and reduce the amount of vocalising at night.
Hi – My beloved cat called Oli is now 15 years old and I think has dementia, my partner and I have just moved, and for the last year or so Oli decided that he did not want to live indoors so we bought an outdoor dog kennel, which we put his favourite blankets, carpet and warmers we put in the mircrowave to keep him warm – he used to come in every night and sleep in his bed in the kitchen, now we have moved, and I kept him in for nearly a week, he cried and cried so eventually I let him out, he will not under any circumstances come in. I have to feed him outside, if I open the door he runs a mile, will not come near and Im worried sick about him. We have foxes that come into the garden and Im so worried if one comes near the kennel, what if Oli is stuck in it?? I cannot take him to the Vets because I cannot get hold of him. I think he has dementia, he often forgets he has eaten, I have tried not feeding him for a day but I had to give in because I felt so guilty. My partner literally gets on all fours to talk to him through the open door to try an get him to come in. I just don’t know what to do??
Hi Joan. We can appreciate how worried you must be about Oli, and how stressful this must be for you. He could be suffering from a condition such as dementia, which would be exacerbated by the move to unfamiliar surroundings. We’d recommend giving your vet a call and chatting it through with them, as they may be able to make some personal recommendations, knowing Oli’s history, or may recommend a home visit to come and see him if possible, as there could be medication that could help the condition. There are supplements that you can also give to help with conditions such as this, many are sprinkle capsules that you can put on his food (such as Aktivait), and this may help to slow down the progression, but again, your vet will be best placed to advise on what to try based on his history. To try to get him back into the house in the short term, it may be worth leaving a door open (although difficult at this time of year when it’s colder) so that he feels he can come in at his own free will, and leaving food near the door and gradually move it into the house if food is a big motivator for him – something particularly tasty and smelly would be ideal. By gradually moving it further into the house, you may be able to keep him shut in, and then gradually start again with helping him to become familiar with his new surroundings. You could also try putting his cat basket into the kennel, filled with nice warm blankets, and then you may be lucky enough, if you’re quiet, to catch him when he’s sleeping in there and you can quietly close the door to the basket and bring him in. Again, once you get him back in the house, we’d recommend keeping him in until he’s more familiar with his new home. There are lots of things you can try, such as pheromone plug-ins, that can help to reduce this initial stress. We hope some of this helps, but do give your vet practice a call as they will be more than happy to offer some further advice.
My 13year old cat is definitely going senile. He recently was diagnosed with early stages of kidney failure. He is on a high quality prescription diet and is eating fine. He has been seeking out very strange spots to sleep and hide. First the bathroom which he’s always been terrified of, and now he spends most of his time in the basement which up to a week ago he has never gone down there before. He seems very confused all the time. Has completely shut us out and doesn’t want any attention which is totally normal for him. He is vocalizing more but his meows sound raspy and forced. He seems to be in no pain just confused. He’s become a grumpy old troll who lives under my staircase. What can I do to help him out? Make him happier? He has no interest in anything I have tried and I don’t I can see his quality of life declining. It’s only been about a month since he started losing it so it’s progressing very fast. Any advice is appreciated.
I’m really sorry to hear about your cat, it’s always sad when they decline so fast. I agree that it looks like he is suffering from a senility disorder, but there are other possibilities (such as a “minor” stroke, which is very common in cats with kidney problems). With kidney failure going on as well, it’s also possible that rising levels of toxins in his blood are causing his confusion. I think the best thing to do would be to have him checked out by your vet. If it is senility, there are things you can do that can sometimes help, but you do need to confirm that the change in behaviour hasn’t been caused by another medical problem. Although I (and, I think, you) suspect that he’s coming to the end of the road, it’s really worth looking to see if there’s anything going on that could be treated or managed. All, the best, David Harris BVSc MRCVS
I have a 15year old Persian who has a cloudy eye but is showing all the signs of the dementia you have described. She is ok when you are fussing and holding her, however when she is left not alone in the house but just not fussed she cries horrendously and wants to be all over the house. The vet has informed us there may be a tumour in her eye and needs it removing. I am not keen on this because of the trauma of this and I do not feel this is the cause of this behaviour as I don’t think this will change the way she is acting and she is quite frail. The only medication she is on is metacam for the pain the vet thinks may be caused by the eye. Even when we give her that I am not sure she is in pain as it doesn’t change her behaviour and the eye doesn’t seem to bother her anyway. Is it possible we could have the eye removed and her behaviour remains the same anyway?
Hi Nigel. We can appreciate your concerns over your Persian; they’re part of the family after all so it’s important to do what’s best for them. We’d recommend popping back to your vet or giving them a call to chat through the situation further, as they’ll know everything about your cat’s history and so will be better placed to advise on the most appropriate treatment for her. Discuss your concerns with them, and see what other options are available, including other forms of medication and the possibility of whether she could be suffering with dementia, as there are treatments that could be trialled, including dietary management, that could improve her symptoms.
Hi all. I have a nearly 17 year old red somali kitty named Sally who has been diagnosed with dementia and failing kidneys by our vet. She is pretty much deaf and blind as well. I noticed in the last year or so that she was terribly anxious, frightened of my younger bigger pets, and howled almost constantly, day and night, unless she was cuddled up next to me on the sofa. I can’t stay on the sofa all day so she was upset a lot of the time. My Mom came to visit and thank God for her because she suggested I give Sally her own room with her own bowls, litter, bed, etc. Sally has lived upstairs for the past 5 months or so–with me going up daily to tend to her. She eats a ton, drinks lots of water and actually sleeps! She comes downstairs sometimes for a visit but it’s brief bc she is cranky with the other pets and she gets very nervous. I still worry about her quality of life. She can’t get up to look out the window like she loved to do. She can’t sleep in my bed. Her blood tests are ok, except for slowly declining kidneys. I’m not sure if I’m prolonging her life needlessly because I don’t know if she is suffering. I do know that she no longer has the life she used to. Is it selfish to keep her alive so I don’t have to make a hard decision? Is it selfish to put her to sleep because it makes me sad to see her declining and I feel awful that she’s not really part of the everyday household anymore? I don’t know what to do.
Hi Lynne, it sounds as if you’re taking wonderful care of her though we know it’s hard to know what to do for the best. Stay in touch with your vet who can advise as to whether she’s likely to be in pain or distressed and can also help you make ‘the decision’ when it comes to it. She won’t be able to enjoy the same quality of life as she once did but that is a fact of aging. Rest assured that you’re doing your best for her and whenever you decide that she is suffering and it’s ‘time’, that you have made the decision in her best interests and because you care. Best wishes to you and her.
I have had my two (brother & sister) since they were born almost 18 years ago. Took one to the vet today since the past week he was urinating just outside the litter box. He had a UTI and is put in antibiotic pills ($11) to help. According to the vet, we should see a noticeable change for the better in a couple of days. He also has very bad arthritis in his hips. This week I also noticed him looking sort of like he isn’t fully aware. Vet said he has cataracts and minor loss of vision, but doesn’t recommend anything for it. So sad seeing my babies grow old. Thankful for every moment I have with them.
I have had my two (brother & sister) since they were born almost 18 years ago. Took one to the vet today since the past week he was urinating just outside the litter box. He had a UTI and is put in antibiotic pills ($11) to help. According to the vet, we should see a noticeable change for the better in a couple of days. He also has very bad arthritis in his hips. This week I also noticed him looking sort of like he isn’t fully aware. Vet said he has cataracts and minor loss of vision, but doesn’t recommend anything for it. So sad seeing my babies grow old. Thankful for every moment I have with them.
My Cat Spencer is 17 & for the last few months has been getting me up at night wanting feeding when there is food already there. He started just sitting in random places staring at nothing, now hes weeing around the house not using the litter tray etc. Yesterday he started walking round in circles and does not want to go out. Im really worried about him I hate to see him like this.
Hi Andrea, we can see why you’d be worried. We think a check up at the vets ASAP is in order as there’s often much that can be done to help. Especially where inappropriate urination is concerned. It could be indicative of a number of causes some of which require prompt treatment. It’s tough to watch our pets go through these changes which is why support from your vet can be so beneficial. Best wishes
My Cat Spencer is 17 & for the last few months has been getting me up at night wanting feeding when there is food already there. He started just sitting in random places staring at nothing, now hes weeing around the house not using the litter tray etc. Yesterday he started walking round in circles and does not want to go out. Im really worried about him I hate to see him like this.
Hi Andrea, we can see why you’d be worried. We think a check up at the vets ASAP is in order as there’s often much that can be done to help. Especially where inappropriate urination is concerned. It could be indicative of a number of causes some of which require prompt treatment. It’s tough to watch our pets go through these changes which is why support from your vet can be so beneficial. Best wishes
It has been a pretty rough few months. I got two cats from the animal shelters around 7 years of age. And I have had them for about 8 or so years. Had to put down Buster a month ago because he had been losing weight for the past couple months and had lymphoma and tumors in his stomach.When he no longer felt the need to eat and there were visual issues in the rectum area, I knew it was time to let him go. My other cat Missy, I think, has bouts of dementia. As of today, she had some sort of a seizure/stroke while I was holding her. Her limbs stiffened, she was frothing at the mouth and panting like a dog. I didn’t know what to do but talk softly into her ears. I think she has the same issues the other cat owners have. I have to make noise at the food dishes for her to come and eat …I practically have to hold the food to her nose. I think she also has a bout with impaired vision. I noticed that after this little mini stroke or seizure(?) that she now almost wants to walk in a circle. It’s very tough to see cats of this age go through this. But I will keep an eye on her, keep her calm and hope for the best.
Hi Tony, we can see why this is distressing for you. Your cat would really benefit from seeing a vet ASAP. There are a number of things that could be going on here and we recommend that you have her examined to prevent any unnecessary discomfort or suffering. Best wishes
It has been a pretty rough few months. I got two cats from the animal shelters around 7 years of age. And I have had them for about 8 or so years. Had to put down Buster a month ago because he had been losing weight for the past couple months and had lymphoma and tumors in his stomach.When he no longer felt the need to eat and there were visual issues in the rectum area, I knew it was time to let him go. My other cat Missy, I think, has bouts of dementia. As of today, she had some sort of a seizure/stroke while I was holding her. Her limbs stiffened, she was frothing at the mouth and panting like a dog. I didn’t know what to do but talk softly into her ears. I think she has the same issues the other cat owners have. I have to make noise at the food dishes for her to come and eat …I practically have to hold the food to her nose. I think she also has a bout with impaired vision. I noticed that after this little mini stroke or seizure(?) that she now almost wants to walk in a circle. It’s very tough to see cats of this age go through this. But I will keep an eye on her, keep her calm and hope for the best.
Hi Tony, we can see why this is distressing for you. Your cat would really benefit from seeing a vet ASAP. There are a number of things that could be going on here and we recommend that you have her examined to prevent any unnecessary discomfort or suffering. Best wishes
It has been a pretty rough few months. I got two cats from the animal shelters around 7 years of age. And I have had them for about 8 or so years. Had to put down Buster a month ago because he had been losing weight for the past couple months and had lymphoma and tumors in his stomach.When he no longer felt the need to eat, I knew it was time to let him go. My other cat Missy, I think, has bouts of dementia. As of today, she had some sort of a seizure while I was holding her and was frothing at the mouth and panting like a dog. I didn’t know what to do but talk softly into her ears. I think she has the same issues the other cat owners have. I have to make noise at the food dishes for her to come and eat …I practically have to hold the food to her nose. I think she also has a bout with impaired vision. I noticed that after this little mini stroke or seizure(?) that she now almost wants to walk in a circle. It’s very tough to see cats of this age go through this. But I will keep an eye on her, keep her calm and hope for the best.
It has been a pretty rough few months. I got two cats from the animal shelters around 7 years of age. And I have had them for about 8 or so years. Had to put down Buster a month ago because he had been losing weight for the past couple months and had lymphoma and tumors in his stomach.When he no longer felt the need to eat, I knew it was time to let him go. My other cat Missy, I think, has bouts of dementia. As of today, she had some sort of a seizure while I was holding her and was frothing at the mouth and panting like a dog. I didn’t know what to do but talk softly into her ears. I think she has the same issues the other cat owners have. I have to make noise at the food dishes for her to come and eat …I practically have to hold the food to her nose. I think she also has a bout with impaired vision. I noticed that after this little mini stroke or seizure(?) that she now almost wants to walk in a circle. It’s very tough to see cats of this age go through this. But I will keep an eye on her, keep her calm and hope for the best.
Wellybobs is 17. I’ve loved him since the day I saw him being born. He drives me mad with this new cry at all hours, especially in the small hours. I worry that the neighbours might think that I’m hurting him! His latest thing is crying till I see his latest kill…a piece of cat meat that he has taken from the dish and placed at his feet for me to see. He has lost the sight in one eye and is partially sighted in the other due to cataracts. It breaks my heart to see him wander into a room and stop not knowing why he is there (I know that feeling). I know the day we say goodbye is close but I’m not ready yet….and I don’t think he is.
Wellybobs is 17. I’ve loved him since the day I saw him being born. He drives me mad with this new cry at all hours, especially in the small hours. I worry that the neighbours might think that I’m hurting him! His latest thing is crying till I see his latest kill…a piece of cat meat that he has taken from the dish and placed at his feet for me to see. He has lost the sight in one eye and is partially sighted in the other due to cataracts. It breaks my heart to see him wander into a room and stop not knowing why he is there (I know that feeling). I know the day we say goodbye is close but I’m not ready yet….and I don’t think he is.
My cat is now 20 and has deteriorated over the past year, he has forgotten where to toilet, cries constantly for attention and I have to put his food under his nose or he forgets where it is, I know the time is right for me to do the right thing for him and let him have the peace he deserves but after all these years im finding it really hard to let go hes been with me through some of the hardest times in my life so im being selfish, I am going to have to do it soon for his sake, Elliot you really are my best friend x
My cat is now 20 and has deteriorated over the past year, he has forgotten where to toilet, cries constantly for attention and I have to put his food under his nose or he forgets where it is, I know the time is right for me to do the right thing for him and let him have the peace he deserves but after all these years im finding it really hard to let go hes been with me through some of the hardest times in my life so im being selfish, I am going to have to do it soon for his sake, Elliot you really are my best friend x
I’m sorry for you, both. It is so painful to lose an animal and/or watch it get old. I’ve been through it several times, and it’s always very difficult and painful.
I’m sorry for you, both. It is so painful to lose an animal and/or watch it get old. I’ve been through it several times, and it’s always very difficult and painful.
My 15 year old
Cat is showing symptoms of dementia and forgets he has been fed.I feed him a small portion then put another in a smaller bowl. Buy very snack cat food to make it easy on him. Hard to watch him and his dementia
My 15 year old
Cat is showing symptoms of dementia and forgets he has been fed.I feed him a small portion then put another in a smaller bowl. Buy very snack cat food to make it easy on him. Hard to watch him and his dementia
Just taken our beloved 19 yr old Molly to the vets – she has had severe dementia for a while now as well as chronic arthritis it was so difficult seeing her go so downhill… she purred through the cage when I stroked her on the way to and waiting for the vet and purred in my arms when they gave her the final injection and she slipped away. We weren’t at all ready to let her go (when are you ever?) but sometimes you have to do what’s best for her…it’s quite now and I find myself looking around for her in her usual places…Molly you will be missed – best cat ever xx
Just taken our beloved 19 yr old Molly to the vets – she has had severe dementia for a while now as well as chronic arthritis it was so difficult seeing her go so downhill… she purred through the cage when I stroked her on the way to and waiting for the vet and purred in my arms when they gave her the final injection and she slipped away. We weren’t at all ready to let her go (when are you ever?) but sometimes you have to do what’s best for her…it’s quite now and I find myself looking around for her in her usual places…Molly you will be missed – best cat ever xx
My sweet polydactyl tuxedo cat, Ming, is about 14 as near as we can figure as she was a shelter rescue. She survived breast cancer two plus years ago, but has been diagnosed with dementia this past year. Her howling progressed from afternoon yodeling upstairs in the hall to frequent and prolonged sessions at any time of the day (including the entire time I’m writing this message). So far she does not perform overnight, which is a relief. She has recently started the staring and often times goes after our other cat if he passes by her or comes up from behind her without her knowing he’s there. He is bewildered and has not yet really retaliated, thank goodness, because he is twice her size.
She is and has always been a ninja, running and jumping with lots of energy. That has cost her two teeth which she broke skidding into a wooden step and recently her mobility for a few days when she dislocated her patella quite painfully out of its groove!
She would eat around the clock if we fed her every time she sat at the dish, we never contemplated that she could “forget” that she’s eaten. We’re very thankful that, so far, she uses the 3 boxes we have around the house because she has diabetes insipidous which results in her drinking, drinking, drinking, and then peeing, peeing, peeing. We’d have a flood if she forgot her potty habits!
I think of her as my feline soulmate, she’s always been attached to me at the hip and she is more so now. (My dear husband is the male cat’s human companion.) I never get to go back to sleep after her breakfast because she comes in for cuddles and has recently begun demanding belly rubs which go on as long as I care to continue – and I plan to give them as long as I am able! We will put up with the screaming and odd behavior for as long as we feel she is living a good life, hopefully for quite a long time.
My sweet polydactyl tuxedo cat, Ming, is about 14 as near as we can figure as she was a shelter rescue. She survived breast cancer two plus years ago, but has been diagnosed with dementia this past year. Her howling progressed from afternoon yodeling upstairs in the hall to frequent and prolonged sessions at any time of the day (including the entire time I’m writing this message). So far she does not perform overnight, which is a relief. She has recently started the staring and often times goes after our other cat if he passes by her or comes up from behind her without her knowing he’s there. He is bewildered and has not yet really retaliated, thank goodness, because he is twice her size.
She is and has always been a ninja, running and jumping with lots of energy. That has cost her two teeth which she broke skidding into a wooden step and recently her mobility for a few days when she dislocated her patella quite painfully out of its groove!
She would eat around the clock if we fed her every time she sat at the dish, we never contemplated that she could “forget” that she’s eaten. We’re very thankful that, so far, she uses the 3 boxes we have around the house because she has diabetes insipidous which results in her drinking, drinking, drinking, and then peeing, peeing, peeing. We’d have a flood if she forgot her potty habits!
I think of her as my feline soulmate, she’s always been attached to me at the hip and she is more so now. (My dear husband is the male cat’s human companion.) I never get to go back to sleep after her breakfast because she comes in for cuddles and has recently begun demanding belly rubs which go on as long as I care to continue – and I plan to give them as long as I am able! We will put up with the screaming and odd behavior for as long as we feel she is living a good life, hopefully for quite a long time.
My cat is 12 and has become very violent to everyone and everything including his sister causing quite a lot of injuries to us
Hi Lindsey, we recommend that you take him to your vet to be examined. There could be a reason such as pain (for example from arthritis) or hyperthyroidism (this condition can makes cats grumpy). Failing that, a behaviourist might be able to help. Who knows, there might be something they can do and you might have your cold cat back before you know it!
My cat is 12 and has become very violent to everyone and everything including his sister causing quite a lot of injuries to us
Hi Lindsey, we recommend that you take him to your vet to be examined. There could be a reason such as pain (for example from arthritis) or hyperthyroidism (this condition can makes cats grumpy). Failing that, a behaviourist might be able to help. Who knows, there might be something they can do and you might have your cold cat back before you know it!
Ps I also meant to add that we have now started to swaddle her gently in one of her favourite blankets while picking her up to cuddle her- this really seems to work? However, we only do this when she makes it clear she wants to be with us, normally when she is crying at us and won’t settle. We still make sure that she has her own space with lots of comfy spots in various rooms and a couple of hidey holes for when she wants to be by herself. So far it does seem to have helped her…
Ps I also meant to add that we have now started to swaddle her gently in one of her favourite blankets while picking her up to cuddle her- this really seems to work? However, we only do this when she makes it clear she wants to be with us, normally when she is crying at us and won’t settle. We still make sure that she has her own space with lots of comfy spots in various rooms and a couple of hidey holes for when she wants to be by herself. So far it does seem to have helped her…
Hi everyone, my 17 year rescue puss has been diagnosed with dementia. Like Sue writes, my cat has also been crying from 3am in the morning and will not settle. I too have been exhausted but am committed to her and really want to help settle and comfort her.
We have tried ignoring her, closing the door and leaving her in the living room with her food, bed and blankets and toys and nothing has worked. Like clockwork she cries and cries until I get up to be with her (and it has to be me otherwise she won’t settle).
We went to the vets today – she was diagnosed with hyperthyroidism 2 years ago but once we’d got to grips with that and stabilised her medication, all had been well. She does not go out for more than half an hour now a few times in the day when I am at home to keep an eye on her as she is also deaf. Anyway, Feliway hasn’t stopped the midnight and early morning howling although it has always help settle any anxiety in the past so we do keep using it just in case. We now have a prescription for Zylkene and a high fat diet in the form of Royal Canine Stage 2 food.
I agree with comments that it has to be about quality of life but with a few manageable adjustments to food (for us, we now give small amounts of food gently warmed and omega and fish oils for her brain) and their routine to encourage and settle them, from my experience, there is no reason to have a pusscat put to sleep just because it has dementia. There are lots of things as an owner that you can do to help to comfort and encourage your cat so that they know you are there when they get a bit confused. Be kind, be patient – (although I completely appreciate that this is very hard when you are sleep deprived as a result of their behaviour!), my cat has responded amazingly since I’ve realised she is a bit lost and confused sometimes and a cuddle and encouragement for her really seem to help. I hope that this is useful.
Thank you for your post, some reassurance and practical tips for others in the same boat. Best wishes
Hi everyone, my 17 year rescue puss has been diagnosed with dementia. Like Sue writes, my cat has also been crying from 3am in the morning and will not settle. I too have been exhausted but am committed to her and really want to help settle and comfort her.
We have tried ignoring her, closing the door and leaving her in the living room with her food, bed and blankets and toys and nothing has worked. Like clockwork she cries and cries until I get up to be with her (and it has to be me otherwise she won’t settle).
We went to the vets today – she was diagnosed with hyperthyroidism 2 years ago but once we’d got to grips with that and stabilised her medication, all had been well. She does not go out for more than half an hour now a few times in the day when I am at home to keep an eye on her as she is also deaf. Anyway, Feliway hasn’t stopped the midnight and early morning howling although it has always help settle any anxiety in the past so we do keep using it just in case. We now have a prescription for Zylkene and a high fat diet in the form of Royal Canine Stage 2 food.
I agree with comments that it has to be about quality of life but with a few manageable adjustments to food (for us, we now give small amounts of food gently warmed and omega and fish oils for her brain) and their routine to encourage and settle them, from my experience, there is no reason to have a pusscat put to sleep just because it has dementia. There are lots of things as an owner that you can do to help to comfort and encourage your cat so that they know you are there when they get a bit confused. Be kind, be patient – (although I completely appreciate that this is very hard when you are sleep deprived as a result of their behaviour!), my cat has responded amazingly since I’ve realised she is a bit lost and confused sometimes and a cuddle and encouragement for her really seem to help. I hope that this is useful.
Thank you for your post, some reassurance and practical tips for others in the same boat. Best wishes
My girl Scrappy is 18. She is currently in the beginning/early stages of kidney failure and is under a vets close care for this (specialized diet included)
Aside from that she has 2 small cysts (non-cancerous) –one on her neck and one on her tail. Overall, she is extremely active for a cat her age – no problems getting around (including jumping) and is still quite playful at times.
I have noticed she is much more demanding for attention in the last year but my main problem is occurring at night. We have two nightstands on each side of our bed. Every single night is the same behavior. She will get up on the nightstand and get as close as possible to the wall (facing it) and just start howling –always the same exact spot. If I just reach out and touch the nightstand with my hand, she will stop – and come over and curl up on my legs and got to sleep…for about 20-30 minutes, then the process starts all over again…and over..and over. She never does this during the day. Last night she literally woke me out of sound sleep at least 12-15 times, no exaggeration. I’m at my wits end, I have not slept well in months.
I cannot lock her out, we have two other cats and the three of them would be nonstop clawing and digging to get in. Any advice or input is greatly appreciated.
Hi Jessie, thanks for getting in touch. Firstly, it would be a good idea to establish the cause of this change in behaviour. Talking through the matter with your vet is the best way to achieve that as CDS is diagnosed by excluding all other potential causes. For example, has her renal status changed again, causing upset? Once you’re clear what the problem is then you can begin to manage the symptoms. If she does indeed suffer with CDS then there are nutritional supplements that can help (again talk through what is suitable for your girl with your vet considering her renal disease). We especially feel for you because of your lack of sleep, this isn’t sustainable long-term we would imagine. If you do go down the route of closing your cats out of the bedroom, make any changes gradual and think about supporting with appeasement products such as Feliway. Perhaps two doors between you all would be required! I’m sorry I haven’t got an easy answer for you, I think talking through the matter with your vet is the best place to start and mention that you are getting no sleep, they might even have a colleague who specialises in behaviour that can help. Whatever you do, you clearly love your cat so rest assured that you’re doing your best to help her! Best wishes
My girl Scrappy is 18. She is currently in the beginning/early stages of kidney failure and is under a vets close care for this (specialized diet included)
Aside from that she has 2 small cysts (non-cancerous) –one on her neck and one on her tail. Overall, she is extremely active for a cat her age – no problems getting around (including jumping) and is still quite playful at times.
I have noticed she is much more demanding for attention in the last year but my main problem is occurring at night. We have two nightstands on each side of our bed. Every single night is the same behavior. She will get up on the nightstand and get as close as possible to the wall (facing it) and just start howling –always the same exact spot. If I just reach out and touch the nightstand with my hand, she will stop – and come over and curl up on my legs and got to sleep…for about 20-30 minutes, then the process starts all over again…and over..and over. She never does this during the day. Last night she literally woke me out of sound sleep at least 12-15 times, no exaggeration. I’m at my wits end, I have not slept well in months.
I cannot lock her out, we have two other cats and the three of them would be nonstop clawing and digging to get in. Any advice or input is greatly appreciated.
Hi Jessie, thanks for getting in touch. Firstly, it would be a good idea to establish the cause of this change in behaviour. Talking through the matter with your vet is the best way to achieve that as CDS is diagnosed by excluding all other potential causes. For example, has her renal status changed again, causing upset? Once you’re clear what the problem is then you can begin to manage the symptoms. If she does indeed suffer with CDS then there are nutritional supplements that can help (again talk through what is suitable for your girl with your vet considering her renal disease). We especially feel for you because of your lack of sleep, this isn’t sustainable long-term we would imagine. If you do go down the route of closing your cats out of the bedroom, make any changes gradual and think about supporting with appeasement products such as Feliway. Perhaps two doors between you all would be required! I’m sorry I haven’t got an easy answer for you, I think talking through the matter with your vet is the best place to start and mention that you are getting no sleep, they might even have a colleague who specialises in behaviour that can help. Whatever you do, you clearly love your cat so rest assured that you’re doing your best to help her! Best wishes
Hi my 14 year old cat seems to forget she has been fed, she eats then a few minutes later cries for more food as if she as forgotten she has already eaten. She has also started wetting where she sleeps and crying out loud at me, something she has never done as she has always been a quiet cat. She is also very homely now bless her 🙂
Hi Jackie, some of these signs could be related to cognitive dysfunction syndrome (CDS) however they could also be caused by other illness/disease. For example if she’s hungry and not not gaining weight, it could be related to her thyroid and urinary incontinence can be a result of many causes. It sounds as if an ‘MOT’ is in order and I recommend that you take her to your vet to be examined. After all, part of the diagnoses of CDS is eliminating other causes for the symptoms. As cats get older, they often require a different approach to their care and therefore, you and your vet can make a plan for her future. Best wishes.
Hi my 14 year old cat seems to forget she has been fed, she eats then a few minutes later cries for more food as if she as forgotten she has already eaten. She has also started wetting where she sleeps and crying out loud at me, something she has never done as she has always been a quiet cat. She is also very homely now bless her 🙂
Hi Jackie, some of these signs could be related to cognitive dysfunction syndrome (CDS) however they could also be caused by other illness/disease. For example if she’s hungry and not not gaining weight, it could be related to her thyroid and urinary incontinence can be a result of many causes. It sounds as if an ‘MOT’ is in order and I recommend that you take her to your vet to be examined. After all, part of the diagnoses of CDS is eliminating other causes for the symptoms. As cats get older, they often require a different approach to their care and therefore, you and your vet can make a plan for her future. Best wishes.
oh please anyone salem my cat is driving me still insane still meowing badly what can i do it has come to the stage i am thinking about getting him put down oh please someone help me .i need help with him come on anyone have they got a cat that does the same how do you solve the problem please please
oh please anyone salem my cat is driving me still insane still meowing badly what can i do it has come to the stage i am thinking about getting him put down oh please someone help me .i need help with him come on anyone have they got a cat that does the same how do you solve the problem please please
Dear Dave tried everything please help still meowing loudly at night i cannot sleep what else can i try have tried everything ty
Dear Dave tried everything please help still meowing loudly at night i cannot sleep what else can i try have tried everything ty
Hi
My cat Chloe is 24-25 (not totally sure). She’s been deaf for years, always been skinny, often forgets where she is and walks around in circles as is she forgets where she is going. She went through the staring at the walls and yelling stage and walking around yelling but she does seemed to have stopped that now (still vocal when she want feeding!). She can still jump on the bed and bound around, however she has started urinating randomly on the sofa and carpet, even where she sleeps, however she still goes to her litter tray to poo. She has had blood tests at the vets and all is fine for a cat her age. I don’t want to put her down, however the house is getting ruined. Does anyone have any ideas to control this?
Hi Simon, what an age! She sounds as if she’s still doing well however I can see why you’d like to get to the bottom of this inappropriate urination. Usually a urine test would be employed to investigate why this problem is occurring and in addition, ultrasound scans among other tests. It would be worth taking her back to your vet and seeing what else can be done. It could be incontinence relating to old age, cystitis or some other cause but it would be worth ruling out a medical reason for this. Best wishes
Hi
My cat Chloe is 24-25 (not totally sure). She’s been deaf for years, always been skinny, often forgets where she is and walks around in circles as is she forgets where she is going. She went through the staring at the walls and yelling stage and walking around yelling but she does seemed to have stopped that now (still vocal when she want feeding!). She can still jump on the bed and bound around, however she has started urinating randomly on the sofa and carpet, even where she sleeps, however she still goes to her litter tray to poo. She has had blood tests at the vets and all is fine for a cat her age. I don’t want to put her down, however the house is getting ruined. Does anyone have any ideas to control this?
Hi Simon, what an age! She sounds as if she’s still doing well however I can see why you’d like to get to the bottom of this inappropriate urination. Usually a urine test would be employed to investigate why this problem is occurring and in addition, ultrasound scans among other tests. It would be worth taking her back to your vet and seeing what else can be done. It could be incontinence relating to old age, cystitis or some other cause but it would be worth ruling out a medical reason for this. Best wishes
Dear Dave
Ty no he is allowed to wonder the house i did have in one room with me but of course he was terrible so i just let him wonder the house .I found Feliway useless it does nothing and here in australia it is so expensive will try the other .Will try a radio to see if that works. ty for your help
Dear Dave
Ty no he is allowed to wonder the house i did have in one room with me but of course he was terrible so i just let him wonder the house .I found Feliway useless it does nothing and here in australia it is so expensive will try the other .Will try a radio to see if that works. ty for your help
Hi,
Our SOY is 17 years old.
She has CDS, has a transdermal everyday for her high blood pressure and has suspected cancers growing in her chest cavity, but seems to be slow growing. She had a thyroidectomy about 4 years ago.
She doesn’t seem to be in any pain, and is under a vets care… But the CDS is heartbreaking… Is it kinder to have her put to sleep, or is she actually okay and just needs to be left to live put her days… Is she scared when she is having a CDS moment? I don’t want her to be in distress.
The tears are streaming as I write this… We love her to bits.
Thanks
Bianca
Bianca, we really feel for you. At this point it is all about quality of life and whether or not you feel, that on balance, she gets some enjoyment out of life. Does she eat well? Does she get a bit of exercise? Does she enjoy her favourite treat? Does she enjoy a fuss? Is she in pain (you are obviously already keeping an eye on that one)? Just some of the questions that can help but there are many others. ‘The right time’ is notoriously a very difficult decision to make and this is perhaps done best in conjunction with your vet. How about talking it through with them? Including your concerns about her being distressed? You obviously love her to bits and so rest assured that whatever decision you make, you’ll be doing for it for the right reason. We wish you all the best
Hi,
Our SOY is 17 years old.
She has CDS, has a transdermal everyday for her high blood pressure and has suspected cancers growing in her chest cavity, but seems to be slow growing. She had a thyroidectomy about 4 years ago.
She doesn’t seem to be in any pain, and is under a vets care… But the CDS is heartbreaking… Is it kinder to have her put to sleep, or is she actually okay and just needs to be left to live put her days… Is she scared when she is having a CDS moment? I don’t want her to be in distress.
The tears are streaming as I write this… We love her to bits.
Thanks
Bianca
Bianca, we really feel for you. At this point it is all about quality of life and whether or not you feel, that on balance, she gets some enjoyment out of life. Does she eat well? Does she get a bit of exercise? Does she enjoy her favourite treat? Does she enjoy a fuss? Is she in pain (you are obviously already keeping an eye on that one)? Just some of the questions that can help but there are many others. ‘The right time’ is notoriously a very difficult decision to make and this is perhaps done best in conjunction with your vet. How about talking it through with them? Including your concerns about her being distressed? You obviously love her to bits and so rest assured that whatever decision you make, you’ll be doing for it for the right reason. We wish you all the best
Hi, my female 9/10 year old has recently started with the above symptoms. She has always cried at night but it’s recently got worse and more frequent. We have found her humping teddies and blankets whilst yowling too. She has started weeing by the door in the kitchen even when trays are clean. She has also started been quite clingy. She has always had a very weird personality but recently got worse. The vets is a no go unless absolutely necessary as she is such a timid little girl and I fear the stress would be too much. She is still happy and eating and drinking though so should I be worried?
Hi Laura, as it says in the blog, the first step in the treatment of CDS is to actually diagnose it and rule out other causes for the same symptoms. This is why it is best discussed with your vet on an individual basis. If she gets too stressed visiting the practice, it could be worth asking for a home appointment. Your cat’s behaviour has changed for some reason and I would recommend looking into the matter with the support of your vet as I’m sure there is much that can be done to support her going forward. Hope this helps. Best wishes
Hi, my female 9/10 year old has recently started with the above symptoms. She has always cried at night but it’s recently got worse and more frequent. We have found her humping teddies and blankets whilst yowling too. She has started weeing by the door in the kitchen even when trays are clean. She has also started been quite clingy. She has always had a very weird personality but recently got worse. The vets is a no go unless absolutely necessary as she is such a timid little girl and I fear the stress would be too much. She is still happy and eating and drinking though so should I be worried?
Hi Laura, as it says in the blog, the first step in the treatment of CDS is to actually diagnose it and rule out other causes for the same symptoms. This is why it is best discussed with your vet on an individual basis. If she gets too stressed visiting the practice, it could be worth asking for a home appointment. Your cat’s behaviour has changed for some reason and I would recommend looking into the matter with the support of your vet as I’m sure there is much that can be done to support her going forward. Hope this helps. Best wishes
my cat is 23 and has dementia says the vet but what i want is help he is meowing all the time night and day and is driving me crazy he is on medication for both dementia and Hyperthyroidism and also on natural medicationFeliway for his anxiety nothing is working still meowing constantly and is driving me insane especially at night he keeps me awake have seen the vet she has given valium but says not all the time what can i do
Hello Sue,
23 is a great age! Unfortunately it there is not much more you can do to help with the meowing, it seems like you are doing everything now. For night time, I wonder if he is in one room? Some owners fine a radio left on a low volume can help – just as reassurance for them. Do you find the Feliway helps at all? There are also products such as Pet Remedy, which are slightly different…
my cat is 23 and has dementia says the vet but what i want is help he is meowing all the time night and day and is driving me crazy he is on medication for both dementia and Hyperthyroidism and also on natural medicationFeliway for his anxiety nothing is working still meowing constantly and is driving me insane especially at night he keeps me awake have seen the vet she has given valium but says not all the time what can i do
Hello Sue,
23 is a great age! Unfortunately it there is not much more you can do to help with the meowing, it seems like you are doing everything now. For night time, I wonder if he is in one room? Some owners fine a radio left on a low volume can help – just as reassurance for them. Do you find the Feliway helps at all? There are also products such as Pet Remedy, which are slightly different…
My 16 year old male has all symptoms, it’s quite obvious that his mind has gone. He is still happy though. As long as he is with me in my room he is happy, loves his treats and loves a cuddle, always purring. He gets extremely upset and cries when I leave him alone but I’m to care for him 24/7. I have seen one comment here that bugs me ‘we want to put him down cos it solves problem but the vet wont let us’ <— if you're talking about your own problems that is a disgusting attitude and you do not deserve the love of a pet. A cat with dementia can still live a happy life, the first thing you think of shouldn't be to put them down! When you own a pet you have to be able to tell the difference between a cat that has problems but is happy and a cat that is constant pain and distress.
Dementia in cats is not always a valid reason to put them to sleep! People must remember that. My little man is content now I've adapted my daily life to comfort him, sometimes that's all they need. Please don't automatically put a cat down just because their mind isn't what it once was.
My 16 year old male has all symptoms, it’s quite obvious that his mind has gone. He is still happy though. As long as he is with me in my room he is happy, loves his treats and loves a cuddle, always purring. He gets extremely upset and cries when I leave him alone but I’m to care for him 24/7. I have seen one comment here that bugs me ‘we want to put him down cos it solves problem but the vet wont let us’ <— if you're talking about your own problems that is a disgusting attitude and you do not deserve the love of a pet. A cat with dementia can still live a happy life, the first thing you think of shouldn't be to put them down! When you own a pet you have to be able to tell the difference between a cat that has problems but is happy and a cat that is constant pain and distress.
Dementia in cats is not always a valid reason to put them to sleep! People must remember that. My little man is content now I've adapted my daily life to comfort him, sometimes that's all they need. Please don't automatically put a cat down just because their mind isn't what it once was.
My 15-1/2 year old girl has started howling at night, but she has a “baby” that she likes to carry around and that is when she howls like she is in heat. Last night she started crying at the door of our apartment. She never goes out in the hall, but since she was crying at the door, I let her out for a couple of minutes and then brought her in. She went right back to crying at the door so I repeated letting her out. She once again started crying at the door. I finally (at 5 am) went back to sleep and all was quiet when I woke up. Tonight after she ate her dinner, she started to stare at the apartment door again.
Hi Barbara. I assume we’re talking about your dog, 15 1/2 is a good age! Bear in mind that as your pet ages, her care needs might change. Did you offer her to go out to urinate? Sounds simple however as our pets get older, for one reason or another they might need to urinate more often, another symptom that is best talked through with a vet. Because of this howling, crying and general change in behaviour, I’d recommend that you take her to see a vet for a general check over and talk through these changes with them.
My 15-1/2 year old girl has started howling at night, but she has a “baby” that she likes to carry around and that is when she howls like she is in heat. Last night she started crying at the door of our apartment. She never goes out in the hall, but since she was crying at the door, I let her out for a couple of minutes and then brought her in. She went right back to crying at the door so I repeated letting her out. She once again started crying at the door. I finally (at 5 am) went back to sleep and all was quiet when I woke up. Tonight after she ate her dinner, she started to stare at the apartment door again.
Hi Barbara. I assume we’re talking about your dog, 15 1/2 is a good age! Bear in mind that as your pet ages, her care needs might change. Did you offer her to go out to urinate? Sounds simple however as our pets get older, for one reason or another they might need to urinate more often, another symptom that is best talked through with a vet. Because of this howling, crying and general change in behaviour, I’d recommend that you take her to see a vet for a general check over and talk through these changes with them.
My cat is about 12 and has changed her behaviour over the last few months. She is still eating and drinking fine but is toileting all over the house and had blood in her stools. The worst thing is she sleeps at the top of the banister and falls from top to bottom of the stairs on a regular basis, I have tried on many occasions to move her for her to sleep comfortably but she just goes back every time, she is going to hurt herself and it is very sad to watch. I have asked my vet to put her to sleep as this would solve a lot of problems for both of us but they say no
My cat is about 12 and has changed her behaviour over the last few months. She is still eating and drinking fine but is toileting all over the house and had blood in her stools. The worst thing is she sleeps at the top of the banister and falls from top to bottom of the stairs on a regular basis, I have tried on many occasions to move her for her to sleep comfortably but she just goes back every time, she is going to hurt herself and it is very sad to watch. I have asked my vet to put her to sleep as this would solve a lot of problems for both of us but they say no
I have two tabby cats, 15 years old, brother and sister. He has overactive thyroid on medication and she has just been diagnosed with dementure. Both sets symptoms same. No tests have been done on her. Her weight loss has not been extreme. She is back at vets in a couple of weeks with urine sample. Should I insist on blood tests?
Hello Sally, definitely speak to them about blood tests – after all it’s your peace of mind (and you will be paying the fee!)
I have two tabby cats, 15 years old, brother and sister. He has overactive thyroid on medication and she has just been diagnosed with dementure. Both sets symptoms same. No tests have been done on her. Her weight loss has not been extreme. She is back at vets in a couple of weeks with urine sample. Should I insist on blood tests?
Hello Sally, definitely speak to them about blood tests – after all it’s your peace of mind (and you will be paying the fee!)
My 16 years old cat was never very vocal but since we lost our other cat 3 months ago he seems to cry alot during the night a very distressing meow
I first put this down to grief but now I think it’s more if he can’t see me during the day he cries out too at times He seems to be sleeping more during the day also. A few months ago he had bloods taken for kidneys and thyroid but all was clear
My 16 years old cat was never very vocal but since we lost our other cat 3 months ago he seems to cry alot during the night a very distressing meow
I first put this down to grief but now I think it’s more if he can’t see me during the day he cries out too at times He seems to be sleeping more during the day also. A few months ago he had bloods taken for kidneys and thyroid but all was clear
I have a rescue cat that I have had for around 8 years. I think she is now 15, but I suspect she may be a little older.
She developed all of these symptoms last winter, just after she was diagnosed with kidney disease. Her KD is under control and she is doing well (a special diet has arrested the disease progression for now) and the vet prescribed a supplement for the CDS (Activait) and, hey presto, within three weeks, she was far more settled, the howling stopped (well. just about) and she was far less anxious.
I moved her litter tray, food, bed and water into one room so she had easy access and a quite sanctuary to retreat to when she wants and, touch wood, no more ‘accidents’ and she is eating well.
But 8 months on, her CDS is progressing and the supplement doesn’t seem to cover all of her symptoms. She has started yowling again but the confusion doesn’t seem to have come back. I am upping the supplement dose to twice a day, at the vet’s recommendation, so I am hoping that will give her some more relief.
But the vet said that cat’s don’t ‘die’ from CDS – but I do want to know what will eventually happen to her? There seems to be little information on the eventual effects of this horrid disease?
I have a rescue cat that I have had for around 8 years. I think she is now 15, but I suspect she may be a little older.
She developed all of these symptoms last winter, just after she was diagnosed with kidney disease. Her KD is under control and she is doing well (a special diet has arrested the disease progression for now) and the vet prescribed a supplement for the CDS (Activait) and, hey presto, within three weeks, she was far more settled, the howling stopped (well. just about) and she was far less anxious.
I moved her litter tray, food, bed and water into one room so she had easy access and a quite sanctuary to retreat to when she wants and, touch wood, no more ‘accidents’ and she is eating well.
But 8 months on, her CDS is progressing and the supplement doesn’t seem to cover all of her symptoms. She has started yowling again but the confusion doesn’t seem to have come back. I am upping the supplement dose to twice a day, at the vet’s recommendation, so I am hoping that will give her some more relief.
But the vet said that cat’s don’t ‘die’ from CDS – but I do want to know what will eventually happen to her? There seems to be little information on the eventual effects of this horrid disease?
Last summer my 19 year old female cat had just about all of the symptoms mentioned in the text. And then the symptoms went away!!!. And now in the last 3-4 weeks the symptoms have returned. In addition, she does have kidney problems. We live in Arizona, so it’s hot, but she has not been outside in 3 years. I try to keep the house at a reasonable high 70’s low 80’s. She spends most of the day curled up in a sink or shower, and most of the evening howling. She has lost her appetite and is confused.
Last summer my 19 year old female cat had just about all of the symptoms mentioned in the text. And then the symptoms went away!!!. And now in the last 3-4 weeks the symptoms have returned. In addition, she does have kidney problems. We live in Arizona, so it’s hot, but she has not been outside in 3 years. I try to keep the house at a reasonable high 70’s low 80’s. She spends most of the day curled up in a sink or shower, and most of the evening howling. She has lost her appetite and is confused.
My Lucky cat is 18 years old. He was tentatively diagnosed with intestinal cancer (75% chance) a year ago and given 3 months to live. We didn’t do the invasive biopsy to confirm due to his age. He is on prednisone and doing well, putting on weight, and obviously outliving is prognosis! He now seems to clearly be developing dementia. Mainly it is the excessive howling at night, and during the day, too. He also has the somewhat confused/lost expression at times. He has been to the vet recently for blood work follow up (for the prednisone) and everything is pretty good, except he had a high white blood cell count. He was put on an antibiotic. He takes Shen Calmer chinese herbals for the anxiety, and we have Feliway. I also got a Thundershirt for him which seems to help somewhat at night. As all have said, the howling is heartbreaking, and I wonder if he is suffering. Otherwise he really is doing pretty good at this point. Any advice?
My Lucky cat is 18 years old. He was tentatively diagnosed with intestinal cancer (75% chance) a year ago and given 3 months to live. We didn’t do the invasive biopsy to confirm due to his age. He is on prednisone and doing well, putting on weight, and obviously outliving is prognosis! He now seems to clearly be developing dementia. Mainly it is the excessive howling at night, and during the day, too. He also has the somewhat confused/lost expression at times. He has been to the vet recently for blood work follow up (for the prednisone) and everything is pretty good, except he had a high white blood cell count. He was put on an antibiotic. He takes Shen Calmer chinese herbals for the anxiety, and we have Feliway. I also got a Thundershirt for him which seems to help somewhat at night. As all have said, the howling is heartbreaking, and I wonder if he is suffering. Otherwise he really is doing pretty good at this point. Any advice?
Long story short, my lovely cat is 19 years old and she has severe dementia, i just have one question, my mum is saying we should put her down due to her condition and quality of life, we both love her to pieces and was asking is it the right thing to do to put your cat down because of dementia? The cats current situation: she has lost all of her body weight in fat, she is extremely skinny now, she gets lost so easily and stares at walls the majority of the time, she dosen’t eat food only licks so we have been giving her liquid food for the past few weeks. From the information above is it time we said our goodbyes, please help, i am not ready to lose her just yet, 🙁
thank you
Joe, you need to ask yourself if you are keeping her alive for your sake, despite her quality of life not being very good. Animal welfare is our main concern, and I’m sure you wouldn’t want her to suffer. When pets reach a very good age as she has, it’s difficult to decide the best course of action.
I’m in exactly the same position. Within the space of six weeks my 15 year old boy has gone downhill with the same symptoms – not eating only licking/picking, seeming confused, staring at walls, walking in circles (clockwise only) and not going far. I’m resigned to the fact he might be on his last furlong and have grieved every night even though he’s still here. Ive even picked out where in the garden to bury him but I just can’t bring myself to take him to be put to sleep. What if he’s fine in himself? What if he doesn’t know he’s suffering? My idea of suffering might be different to his? He’s not the cat I knew six weeks ago but I just can’t let go. I’m an emotional wreck right now and people would think I’m bonkers for feeling this way. Is it more about me than him? Maybe. But I’m stuck. It’s made worse by the fact that his twin sister is still healthy and fit. Goddamm this s*** situation! I wish it were me and not him.
Hi Sam, it’s a horrible situation to be in, we agree. It’s often so hard to know what to do for the best. Firstly, we think a trip to the vet is in order. What if it isn’t dementia that your kitty is experiencing? What if there is much that can be done to help? There could be another reason for these symptoms and potentially something which needs to be treated quickly. It’s good to forge a relationship with your vet especially at this time so that you can make a plan for your aging cat. You will also likely find a great deal of support from them too. We wish you and him the best.
Could he have had a stroke maybe?
Long story short, my lovely cat is 19 years old and she has severe dementia, i just have one question, my mum is saying we should put her down due to her condition and quality of life, we both love her to pieces and was asking is it the right thing to do to put your cat down because of dementia? The cats current situation: she has lost all of her body weight in fat, she is extremely skinny now, she gets lost so easily and stares at walls the majority of the time, she dosen’t eat food only licks so we have been giving her liquid food for the past few weeks. From the information above is it time we said our goodbyes, please help, i am not ready to lose her just yet, 🙁
thank you
Joe, you need to ask yourself if you are keeping her alive for your sake, despite her quality of life not being very good. Animal welfare is our main concern, and I’m sure you wouldn’t want her to suffer. When pets reach a very good age as she has, it’s difficult to decide the best course of action.
My 18 year old moggy, well at least that’s how old I think he is, is was inherited in 2000 and wasn’t a kitten . . . Anyway, Eddy(the cat) is now completely deaf. In all honesty rather like me he has never been the sharpest knife in the drawer but doing some odd things and sleep pattern totally changed. He also appears to be plucking fur to the extent he now has some totally bald patches. Any answers? ??
Hi Wendy, there can be numerous reasons that cats pluck their fur, from stress or pain to parasites. It would be best if he was checked over by your vet and they might be able to shed light on his behaviour. Dave RVN Vet Help Direct
My 18 year old moggy, well at least that’s how old I think he is, is was inherited in 2000 and wasn’t a kitten . . . Anyway, Eddy(the cat) is now completely deaf. In all honesty rather like me he has never been the sharpest knife in the drawer but doing some odd things and sleep pattern totally changed. He also appears to be plucking fur to the extent he now has some totally bald patches. Any answers? ??
Hi Wendy, there can be numerous reasons that cats pluck their fur, from stress or pain to parasites. It would be best if he was checked over by your vet and they might be able to shed light on his behaviour. Dave RVN Vet Help Direct
Hello. My cat is 21 and seems to be becoming confused. He’ll stare vacantly, meow very loudly, has become clingy and has stated to wee indoors. We keep to a routine and keeps the light on at night so as to keep things easy for him. I just wondered what the life expectancy is for a cat displaying these traits and was there anything else we could do to help him.
Hi Sarah,
It is impossible to say, some cats can go on for a long time – 21 is an excellent age! A general heath check with your vet might be a good idea, they will know his history and could offer more advice for you.
Hello. My cat is 21 and seems to be becoming confused. He’ll stare vacantly, meow very loudly, has become clingy and has stated to wee indoors. We keep to a routine and keeps the light on at night so as to keep things easy for him. I just wondered what the life expectancy is for a cat displaying these traits and was there anything else we could do to help him.
Hi Sarah,
It is impossible to say, some cats can go on for a long time – 21 is an excellent age! A general heath check with your vet might be a good idea, they will know his history and could offer more advice for you.
My cat is only 7 1/2 years old and is showing quite a few symptoms of dementia.
I have taken him to the vet for a check up and have had blood tests done but nothing has shown up in test results. Was told he was too young for it to be dementia.
I am worried as to what to do next. Can you help please?
Hi all
My cat is 15 1/2 yrs she has had most if these symptoms for about 3 yrs. She just wants to be with me…but…i too worry if i am prolonging her life of torment? She stills eats, but sleeps all day,howls all nite…we are exhausted and sad?
Hi Evelyn, sorry to hear about your cat. It might be worth speaking to the vet again and asking if the symptoms you cat is displaying could be behaviour issues. Sometimes there can be a change in the enviromnment, even a new cat in the neighbourhood to change cats behaviour. Calming products such as Feliway might help, but sometimes a professional pet behaviourist is needed. Dave RVN @ Vet Help Direct.
My cat is only 7 1/2 years old and is showing quite a few symptoms of dementia.
I have taken him to the vet for a check up and have had blood tests done but nothing has shown up in test results. Was told he was too young for it to be dementia.
I am worried as to what to do next. Can you help please?
Hi Evelyn, sorry to hear about your cat. It might be worth speaking to the vet again and asking if the symptoms you cat is displaying could be behaviour issues. Sometimes there can be a change in the enviromnment, even a new cat in the neighbourhood to change cats behaviour. Calming products such as Feliway might help, but sometimes a professional pet behaviourist is needed. Dave RVN @ Vet Help Direct.
My cat ,is 20 years old. Has all of the above. Last year he had a stroke. Which has left him a bit wobbably on his feet. He has been to the vets and has been told well he’s 20. I don’t know if he’s suffering or not. He eats loads . loves cuddles. And still cleaning his self. He had a cat tray in doors now . but all seems to be working OK.
My cat is also 20 years old and is howling at night and I am at lost to what to do
Just answer them to let them know you are still there. Mine always stopped once he figured out where I was.
Vet check to rule out medical issues, but dementia is a definite possibility.
My cat ,is 20 years old. Has all of the above. Last year he had a stroke. Which has left him a bit wobbably on his feet. He has been to the vets and has been told well he’s 20. I don’t know if he’s suffering or not. He eats loads . loves cuddles. And still cleaning his self. He had a cat tray in doors now . but all seems to be working OK.
Hi All,
I think my cat is suffering dimentia and i’m not sure what to do to make her life easier. Simba is a 15 year old domestic moggy and all of a sudden started seeing her reflection in my glass windows and mirror and has started hissing and fighting thinking another cat is there.
I have covered certain surfaces with white paper and this seems to ease the tension for her but then she just moves on to another surface like the oven or the fridge.
Does anyone have any ideas or the vet’s online is their medication she can be on as the vet put her on anti-anxiety medication but this was awful as she was not her self at all.
Please help. Thanks
Hi All,
I think my cat is suffering dimentia and i’m not sure what to do to make her life easier. Simba is a 15 year old domestic moggy and all of a sudden started seeing her reflection in my glass windows and mirror and has started hissing and fighting thinking another cat is there.
I have covered certain surfaces with white paper and this seems to ease the tension for her but then she just moves on to another surface like the oven or the fridge.
Does anyone have any ideas or the vet’s online is their medication she can be on as the vet put her on anti-anxiety medication but this was awful as she was not her self at all.
Please help. Thanks
Hello everyone. My mum’s cat Sparky is 19 this year and he is showing symptoms of having CDS. He has recently started ripping up bags and newspapers just before urinating. We have tried putting newspaper in his litter tray (just to let him know its alright to wee there), but he is now getting confused and doesn’t seem to know “Where to go?”. He meows and whines and howls at night and day when he gets “lost”. We have to actually go up to him, pick him up and pet him for a while, until he knows its us. Another thing he has started doing is forgetting where his food is. He can smell it, he can taste it but he doesn’t know its actually there! Our vet has recommended that we give him vitamin E, but it doesn’t seem to be working very well. Any suggestions on how to help our poor old kitty please?
When my 19 year old rescue started to disconnect from reality I put him down because he could no longer connect to where he was or what he was doing it was the hardest thing I ever did but I know that he died in peace now I am faced with a 16 year old rescue that has diabetes he is so precious but his respiratory system breathing is labored and is not using his box so I have to put him down this is the most crushing thing to have to go through plus on monday my 83 year old mother is having heart surgery my heart can not take much more pain
So sorry to hear that Valerie, I hope all goes well this week.
Hello everyone. My mum’s cat Sparky is 19 this year and he is showing symptoms of having CDS. He has recently started ripping up bags and newspapers just before urinating. We have tried putting newspaper in his litter tray (just to let him know its alright to wee there), but he is now getting confused and doesn’t seem to know “Where to go?”. He meows and whines and howls at night and day when he gets “lost”. We have to actually go up to him, pick him up and pet him for a while, until he knows its us. Another thing he has started doing is forgetting where his food is. He can smell it, he can taste it but he doesn’t know its actually there! Our vet has recommended that we give him vitamin E, but it doesn’t seem to be working very well. Any suggestions on how to help our poor old kitty please?
Hi,
My cat is aged at 14 and he is experiencing dementia. Because the signs are showing that. But the vets in my country are not educated, and because of them I lost one of my cats. So rather than taking to them, I want to make the life easier for my cat. Is there any particular diet that I could use for my cat? We also have two more cats, which are girl and they are always making him to be alive by fighting with him=) and also we needed to move two times our house, I guess at the last one dementia had been occurred. I even do not invite my friends to our home because he is acting more stressful. On the other hand he is always circling around him when he has his toilet and when he is hungry. We are using a medicine for the behavioral disorder but still it does not help him. He was an aggressive cat for all of his life and he always loved the routine. He had been acted very irritative to the “sound” for all of his life. If you could help me, I would be glad.
Hi, it seems by making your cat’s life easier by not having too much stress for them, you are doing the right thing. Diet wise there are several brands that can work for brain function, but most seemed aimed at dogs. We understand you are not encouraged by your vets, however they are really the best placed people to be able to help you further.
Hi,
My cat is aged at 14 and he is experiencing dementia. Because the signs are showing that. But the vets in my country are not educated, and because of them I lost one of my cats. So rather than taking to them, I want to make the life easier for my cat. Is there any particular diet that I could use for my cat? We also have two more cats, which are girl and they are always making him to be alive by fighting with him=) and also we needed to move two times our house, I guess at the last one dementia had been occurred. I even do not invite my friends to our home because he is acting more stressful. On the other hand he is always circling around him when he has his toilet and when he is hungry. We are using a medicine for the behavioral disorder but still it does not help him. He was an aggressive cat for all of his life and he always loved the routine. He had been acted very irritative to the “sound” for all of his life. If you could help me, I would be glad.
Hi, it seems by making your cat’s life easier by not having too much stress for them, you are doing the right thing. Diet wise there are several brands that can work for brain function, but most seemed aimed at dogs. We understand you are not encouraged by your vets, however they are really the best placed people to be able to help you further.
I have a 5 year old tabby who is already very vocal. I’ve noticed (overnight) that his talking has become even more frequent and more pronounced. As if he’s in pain…I’m no vet but since he loves any type of touching he lets me do an amateur exam on him just looking for signs of pain. I gently massage, squeeze, touch, push, pull and he doesn’t respond vocally. He just cries incessantly but when I pick him up and let him in my lap he’ll fall right to sleep. He’s always loved affection but not to the point where he’ll practically pass out once I pick him up and place him in my lap. His sight still works because he can see his brush from a mile away! Is he suffering? Can such a young cat have dementia? I’ve had him since he was a year old and with me he’s like a dog in cat’s clothing…he’s my shadow. I know this cat so I know when something is off. I’m soooo worried…help! Thank you
I have a 5 year old tabby who is already very vocal. I’ve noticed (overnight) that his talking has become even more frequent and more pronounced. As if he’s in pain…I’m no vet but since he loves any type of touching he lets me do an amateur exam on him just looking for signs of pain. I gently massage, squeeze, touch, push, pull and he doesn’t respond vocally. He just cries incessantly but when I pick him up and let him in my lap he’ll fall right to sleep. He’s always loved affection but not to the point where he’ll practically pass out once I pick him up and place him in my lap. His sight still works because he can see his brush from a mile away! Is he suffering? Can such a young cat have dementia? I’ve had him since he was a year old and with me he’s like a dog in cat’s clothing…he’s my shadow. I know this cat so I know when something is off. I’m soooo worried…help! Thank you
Hi, My old girl is 17 and has been making these horrible howling noises through the day and night I have taken her to the vets twice and had her bloods screened etc and they all come back normal, she has lost a bit of weight and seems really unhappy in general, Im at a loss what to do next the noises are so upsetting, could this be something underlining?
Hello Denise, it can be so upsetting when our pets are not well – if only they could talk! We’d suggest speaking to your vet again, they might want to run further tests on her such as an x-ray, even further bloods (it is all according to the tests she has already been screened for) etc. Best of luck, Dave RVN.
Hi, My old girl is 17 and has been making these horrible howling noises through the day and night I have taken her to the vets twice and had her bloods screened etc and they all come back normal, she has lost a bit of weight and seems really unhappy in general, Im at a loss what to do next the noises are so upsetting, could this be something underlining?
Hello Denise, it can be so upsetting when our pets are not well – if only they could talk! We’d suggest speaking to your vet again, they might want to run further tests on her such as an x-ray, even further bloods (it is all according to the tests she has already been screened for) etc. Best of luck, Dave RVN.
I have a lovely 20 yr.old cat(a moggie).Dizzy has hyper thyriodism,kidney failure,is stone deaf,in fact she went deaf overnight and has dementia.
Recently she has been very anxious about venturing downstairs from my bedroom to use her litter tray and feed.Last night she actually told me in her own way that she did not want to go downstairs anymore and urinated on my bed as I lay there.
The result is that I have now brought everything into my bedroom,litter tray,food tray and an old wooden ironing table which she uses as a scratch post.The things we do for our cats.
I have a female cat she’s 11years old I think she’s starting with dementia cause she snapped on you and shows her teeth them goes away then comes bk to you . And she is very unsettled a lot up and down from window you bed .
I am pretty sure my dearly loved 14 year old cat has dementia. She asks to go out, then won’t go through the door. I have brought her into my bedroom, where she spends most of the day and all night. She has a comfortable bed, a litter tray and her food. She doesn’t seem to be in any pain, but neither does she seem to have any quality of life. I am seriously considering euthanasia. I recently spent nine months in an aged care home and was the only resident who didn’t have some degree of deentia. They weren’t happy little sous, living in their own world. They were basically miserable, sometimes violent and either visited by family, they didn’t recognise, or not visited, by family who couldn’t bear it any longer. I want to give my dear cat a better ending than that. Am I being competely selfish? I hope not.
Aww Robin, did any advisor ever get back to you?
My old car is 18 and I feel the same.
Bless you
Heather
I have a lovely 20 yr.old cat(a moggie).Dizzy has hyper thyriodism,kidney failure,is stone deaf,in fact she went deaf overnight and has dementia.
Recently she has been very anxious about venturing downstairs from my bedroom to use her litter tray and feed.Last night she actually told me in her own way that she did not want to go downstairs anymore and urinated on my bed as I lay there.
The result is that I have now brought everything into my bedroom,litter tray,food tray and an old wooden ironing table which she uses as a scratch post.The things we do for our cats.
Your cat is similar to mine. She went deaf, has thyroid issues, and is in the final stages of kidney failure
so loving of you to readjust your bedroom…especially bringing the litter there (ugh! but yes, the things we do!)…i have 2 18yr old Katrina rescues..one has lymphoma and messes by throwing up or diarrhea and the other (toothless now) has dementia and wants to be cuddled all the time (luckily i’m retired, and love accomodating her).
i will continue accomodating both till they indicate they’re in pain…at the moment, i dont think they are, and are only very needy.
Is your senior cat driving you nuts? Mine is. Thanks to the Covid crisis we are together all the time! She has a loud meow and also howls. Demands to go outside 5 minutes after she comes in. She is on a line in fenced yard and stays outside for 10 minutes top.
Hi Debbie, thanks for asking. Yes, dementia is possible in a cat younger than 15, however, the younger the cat (and 7 would be quite young) the more likely it is that these symptoms are actually due to a different condition. I highly recommend taking your cat to the vet to rule out other diseases before giving them a diagnosis of dementia. Best of luck!
Hi Debbie, thanks for asking. Yes, dementia is possible in a cat younger than 15, however, the younger the cat (and 7 would be quite young) the more likely it is that these symptoms are actually due to a different condition. I highly recommend taking your cat to the vet to rule out other diseases before giving them a diagnosis of dementia. Best of luck!
My cat is barely two and exhibiting all the signs of CDS. We have tested and ruled out practically everything. Heart-breaking.
I have a 7 year old persian with all the above symptoms, is dementia possible in a cat younger than 15?
Our 17 year old cat: eating very well, weighs 5,5 kg, heart strong and physically in good shape. I took him to the vet for a check up today and she says he is still good for a while, not suffering. He cant see or hear much and sleeps a lot. He goes outdoors to the toilet and wont use his indoor litter box! He can jump on and off out bed when he feels like it. Could the blindness and deafness cause him suffering? Does he know that he can’t do what he used to when he was younger? Thank you
I have a 7 year old persian with all the above symptoms, is dementia possible in a cat younger than 15?
My cat is showing signs. I am worried he is 11
My cat will be 11 yrs old in August. She is showing signs of dementia now. She had about all of the signs except for two of them.
She was the runt of the litter & is getting terrified to go to the vet! She has to be sedated to go get her nails trimmed & a new Soresto Flea Collar put on!
My cat is 22 he just now started showing signs of dementia things that he is due before now when he does then he starts crying for Howling
Definitely worth a vet check to rule out medical issues if it’s started suddenly, but at that age, it is always a possibility.
I will move my thing’s to our bedroom too