Ouch! Cat bites can be very unpleasant and always best avoided. As natural skilled predators, cats have sharp teeth and a firm bite. A common question from pet owners is why does their cat bite them unprovoked… and how they can avoid it! Bites from pet cats are not uncommon, but interestingly are often not a sign of true aggression.
Let’s start by discussing some of the main scenarios in which cat owners are bitten and how to avoid known pitfalls. Most owners describe their cat’s behaviour as ‘unprovoked’. But there are often signs to watch out for, once you learn the subtle language of cats!
Kitten biting
Kittens are naturally playful and mischievous but are also budding hunters. A dangerous combination when it comes to nipping.
Play biting is very important in kitten development. Alongside learning how to communicate and play with their littermates and other cats, they are also acquiring vital hunting skills. Teething pain will also feature. This means there is a triple whammy of reasons for them to try out their teeth on any unsuspecting object… including you!
However, that doesn’t mean you have to just let them bite! Never play games with your kitten that involves them chasing and biting at your fingers and toes. This is very common and although it may be cute and funny when your 10-week old kitten pounces and nibbles on your toes in bed. It’s not quite so fun with a grown cat when their adult teeth have emerged.
Kittens love to play by chasing, pouncing and biting, so make sure you have plenty of suitable toys for them to indulge this behaviour. Set aside time to play with them to make sure this strong need is fulfilled.
Play biting in cats
Although strongest in kittens, the need to play continues in adult cats. This is easy to forget and therefore easy not to indulge. Indoor cats especially, with no access to practice stalking and pouncing behaviours in the garden, may start using you, your furniture and your clothing as ‘prey’.
As innate predators due to their carnivorous diet, behaviours such as biting, clawing and pouncing come naturally to cats. Encouraging these play behaviours is a good thing to satisfy your cat’s needs. Cut care must be taken not to encourage aggression.
The easiest way to navigate this fine line is to have lots of suitable toys available. Also, make sure you take time for dedicated play sessions with your cat, but always allow them to ‘win’ before they get too frustrated. Let them catch and ‘kill’ the toy before they get so overstimulated that they may start biting anything that gets in their way. Remember, keep hands and feet well away and try to stop games before your cat gets too wound up.
Sudden biting when petting your cat
Most commonly described as ‘unprovoked biting’, this behaviour can be very upsetting. You are sat on your favourite chair, cat curled up purring on your lap as you gently stroke them… and them, wham! A vicious bite to the hand, seemingly out of nowhere. Understandably, this causes anxiety and concern amongst pet owners.
The first thing to emphasise is: don’t take it personally! This is just a form of communication from your cat, it is not intended as aggression in the true sense. It has been shown that repetitive petting of sensitive areas, such as the base of the tail in cats, can lead to overstimulation and ‘excitement’ effect in cats. Which can lead to adverse sudden behaviours such as biting. In essence, your cat is just telling you that they have had enough of the stroking, now.
Although commonly described as being unprovoked, most cats will actually give some warning that they are reaching their petting threshold. These signs are often just quite subtle. It can be very peaceful and soothing to stroke your cat’s beautifully soft fur over and over, but it is worth keeping an eye on their reactions. Small signs such as a gentle swish of the tail or a flattening of the ears may give you the heads up that they are becoming overstimulated and may react negatively soon. Learning to read your cat’s body language is really useful here. Behaviour can be quite variable between cats so a bit of time observing your particular feline will be needed.
Love bites from your cat
Some cats may gently nibble or bite their owners as a sign of affection. It is thought to be reminiscent of how a mother cat will groom her kittens with small bites and is more common in cats who have had litters. This is not usually a problem form of biting. But if the mother cat is a little too enthusiastic in their efforts, gently removing yourself from their ministrations is usually sufficient to deter them.
Aggressive cat biting
The most concerning form of biting is the true aggressive, intentioned bite. Cat bites can be deep and serious, and often get infected due to the bacteria cats carry in their mouths. This form of biting is often accompanied by aggressive body language from the cat; this might include:
- hissing
- spitting
- defensive posturing, such as an arched back and fluffed tail.
The best way to avoid aggressive bites from cats is to learn to read these warning signs and stop doing whatever pre-empted this reaction. Try and avoid situations which can cause defensive fear, such as trying to pull them off furniture or being cornered without an escape route.
If you are bitten, wash the wound thoroughly and seek medical advice. Do not punish your cat; they use biting as an extreme form of communication when they feel they have no other option. They will not understand any punishment given, and in fact, it may only worsen certain behaviours. If your cat bites frequently, or you are struggling to recognise why, seek advice from a qualified feline behaviourist.
Know your cat!
Hopefully, this post will have helped some understanding of why cats may bite, and how you can help prevent it. Remember to get to know your cat’s body language and preferences. Then provide plenty of suitable toys for them to play roughly with (not fingers or toes!).
Above all, remain consistent: allowing cute nibbles to your arm but shouting when they nip your ankles is confusing! Learn to read your cat, and give them consistency in return and your relationship will be strong, loving – and bite-free!
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Discussion
My cat is 11 years old. He sleeps with me almost every night. If not in my bed he will sleep on his cat birch in the bedroom. At least once a month, while I am asleep, he will come over and nip me. He draws blood. I then let him out of the bedroom and close the door. He sits outside meowing and scratching at the door. My question, why is he nipping me? My vet said he thinks I am prey.
He might – or he may be trying to get you to play with him, which I would think would fit with the behaviour?
If it’s a problem (which it sounds like!), I think a clinical animal behaviourist would be your best bet.
I take my cat out on a walk with a vest and leash as we live in an area with wildlife that could kill her. Either my husband or I take her out daily for at least a half hour and sometimes a full hour. Many days when it’s time to come inside she gets upset, sometimes she snarls at me and uses her claws, other times she grabs my calf and leaves scratches. She doesn’t do this to my husband, how do I rectify this situation? The rest of our relationship is good, she head butts me, circles around my ankles and hangs around me most of the time.
Understanding why cats do things can be really complicated! As a guess, I’d say that the cat has a different relationship with your husband, or that he’s picking up on different cues?
It might be worth having a chat with a clinical animal behaviourist to see if they can give any insight, because I’m afraid I cannot think of any straightforward reasons why the cat behaves so differently in the different contexts!
I have a 3 year old cat who I took as a “rehome” request. She often wants to be held, and always wants to get close to my face, nuzzling in my neck while purring etc. She recently bit me suddenly on the neck behind my left ear. The was a HARD bite, not those “love” bites that are often described. She also wants to do this at night while Im sleeping, and does not redirect well. I DONT TRUST HER anymore. She is unpredictable. What can I do to change this behavior ??
It sounds like the relationship is at breaking point – and my best advice would be to get in touch with a good clinical animal behaviourist and try to get to the bottom of it – good luck!
Hello, I have a 4 year old domestic long hair cat I adopted him from a shelter a few months ago and he’s doing really well, he plays with toys and he’s very good. Sometimes he engages in stalking behavior when he’s in a playful mood and I hide around a corner and indulge him and he pounces around the corner at me, and my question is afterwards it seems like he’s playful swaying and play biting, he doesn’t ever draw blood even with his claws but I can’t tell if he might be getting more aggressive with it, he’ll latch on and bunny kick but continue biting and after he gets off hell coninue to try and bite. Is he playing? I don’t think he is because his tail is wagging slightly but I try and leave him alone and he tries to come back and nibble at me, doesn’t hurt normally but he’s a pretty big cat and he really gets into it. Again no blood is ever drawn from the bites
From your description, this does sound like play (just very ferocious play!).
Distracting him or at least not rewarding him is usually the best approach!
We used to have a cat whose warning sign was a twitch at the very end of her tail – and if we ignored it, out came the fangs. That was perfectly fine… except then she went and got herself hung up by her tail when she slipped climbing a tree, and it took two weeks to come right, and when it finally did… there was some nerve damage. Her tail, from then on, twitched CONSTANTLY. And suddenly Puss did not HAVE a trigger warning! We became a bit scared of her…
My 5-year-old stray has been with me for two years. Before that, he was in the shelter. It took us a whole year to get to the point where he allowed petting, since then he has been a lovely snuggly boy who loves forehead kisses. However, a month ago he started to fake bite me out of nowhere. Once, I was watching TV (he sleeps behind my neck), when he suddenly woke up, made a sound with a rising tone and bit into my hair. The other times I have been in front of my computer (he sleeps next to my monitor), when he crouches down and dashes towards my neck while making the same sound with the rising tone. Usually, I startle before he reaches my neck to fake bite me. I know that he is not asking for affection with that because when I go to pet him after that (which he allows), he doesn’t show much enthusiasm and he starts to flick his tail. He also cannot be asking for food because for that he has a different way of asking (also we have a pretty clear feeding schedule). I also do not think it’s out of boredom because he prefers to play alone and has access to all of his toys. He’s also in good health.
Today, after he tried to fake bite me, we stared at each other for 5 minutes and he tried to do it again. I know he is trying to tell me something but I am very very lost.
Hmmm… it does sound like he thinks it’s some sort of game, doesn’t it? You could try a distraction with a toy when he starts the behaviour – he might not want to be petted, he might want to play, perhaps? If not, I think the best idea is to check with a qualified clinical animal behaviourist and see if they can help. Best of luck!
My husband holds a baby while he cries .. suddenly my cat start attacking my husband repeatedly and try to reach my 6 months old baby .. he attacks unstop and we close the door .. and after some hours when we go to see him .. he was still angry and about to attack .. I don’t know what happen to him .,, we are very scared of him and lock him in another room
Cats can sometimes respond badly to changes in the people in the house – but that much violence really isn’t common! I’d recommend a vet check to rule out any medical issues, and then seek a good clinical animal behaviourist if nothing is found – your vet should be able to recommend one.
My cat is 15 years old and has been doing this for years so I’m sure there is t much I can do about it at this point; however I just wish I could understand why she does this. It’s becoming more frequent. This doesn’t happen every night but many nights it does. She sleeps on top of me in bed either on my hip or chest or wherever she finds comfortable and everything is fine until I need to move or shift around to get comfortable, as soon as start moving around or trying to switch sides she bites me! And it’s not like a love bite she draws blood every time and sometimes it’s followed by a hiss. Within five minutes she acts normal and sweet again but it’s very disturbing to be half asleep trying to get comfortable in you bed and all the sudden a painful bite come your way completely unprovoked. This has never happened while petting her or playing with her or any other circumstance. Only when I’m asleep trying to get comfortable in my bed. I know try to sleep with the covers over any exposed skin because if my arms are out at all when I move around I will get bitten.
I have a cat who does this as well. She bit me during the night and awoke me out of a sound sleep with her teeth planted firmly in my forearm. It took weeks for the bite marks to heal. Its very frustrating. She recently bit me in the neck when she was requesting to “cuddle” on my shoulder. I dont know what to do to stop her from this behavior.
If a cat bites me, I will show her the finger of doom, if she bites me again, I will bop her on the nose, there has to be a balance, eating more than I spend for my own food? Funnyest thing ever, all four of my cats are literally thrown from a car/van and Basil is the youngest and also the largest, they were making my life hell, there was no sleep after about 5am, so I removed the tree limb by which they could return, you can leave but your not coming back 15 mins later after you had a pee Well that didn’t suit them at all.. Max would just beat on the window, forever. Mollie would just tap and keep tapping, Suzie would try and pull the window out, it never worked? Open the curtains and there is Suzie hauling at the window but Basil would sit down and sing, oh my god, he could sound so lonely, wee shite that he is! Poor little lost kitten, I think he is possibly at least half Norwegan Forest Cat, besides his massive size, he has those tell-tale tufts on his paws, I keep telling them that cat-beating is going to be re-vitalised, but they just don’t care? I am somewhat older and had a ‘fall’ recently, I woke up with three cats nuzzling me, obviously hungry, Wee shtes that they are!
Hi, I have a Heart Mainecoon and whatever cat he is almost to. I love him, but sometimes he strikes like a snake out of the blue. I know sometimes he’s just playing but sometimes he intentionally bites. I have never played with him with my hands. He has toys, but he was about six months old when he started, biting my fighting my fHi, I have a Heart Mainecoon and whatever cat he is almost too. I love him, but sometimes he strikes like a snake out of the blue. I know sometimes he’s just playing but sometimes he intentionally bites. I have never played with him with my hands. He has toys, but he was about six months old when he started biting, like biting my face and ripping my skin, he does not like having his nails done and we sedate him but it doesn’t work either. Any suggestions? I know he’s not a bad kitty.
It does sound like there’s a problem behaviour pattern there, and for whatever reason, it sounds like a cycle you and he are trapped in. I’d suggest a consultation with a clinical animal behaviourist to try and get to the bottom of it, for both your sakes’! Your vet will probably be able to recommend one; alternatively, many do offer video consults now. Good luck!
sorry if this sounds abrupt. if the cat is misbehaving you need to let them know.
Just like with anybody that takes liberties with you, there needs to be consequences. If a cat bites me, I will show them the finger of doom, if they bite me again I will bonk them on the nose and I will hold the finger up. do you want to continue? Generally they get the idea except for Mollie that tried to eat my finger entire. But Mollie is an exception by any standards.I love her unconditionally (just as well) and she has no time for any other cat or any other person, probably only me because I feed her? She will still find her way to my bed and purr away, then give out if I so much as turn in my sleep and disturb her. She is such a shite, and I love her to bits.
This sort of aversive training is rarely the best approach to training any animal, and may be a factor in aggression later on…
I have a 5 year old yellow tabby I got from the animal shelter as a kitten. He has always scratched the furniture but has been a good cat. He don’t like to be picked up but he will sit we me, lay beside me, make biscuits on me while I have a blanket on me. He is very friendly when people come. After 5 years he now Bites the blood out me for not reason, I have horrific pictures. I can reach out to pet him and he snaps, or he will run and grab my leg and bite the deeply. Problem is, he does this about once a month so I never know when. I love this cat so much, I play with him, I brush him, he seems to love me and then he bites. Why all of the sudden. I have spoke to my vet, she can’t give me an answer. I tried cat calming treats, he refuses to eat them. No way to give him the pills she suggested, he would bite if I tried to put them in his mouth. Everyone keeps telling these cat bites are very dangerous to me, and I could in end up in the hospital and or could die. What can I do. He is an indoor cat only. I don’t think he would survive the outdoors after being inside for 5 years.
OK, it sounds like you’ve done all the basics: I’m afraid I would strongly recommend getting a consultation from a clinical animal behaviourist. Your vet should be able to recommend one; alternatively, many do operate online consultations. It sounds like you need expert help here – good luck!
My cat will jump up and sit on the arm of my chair. Sometimes she then sits on my lap but sometimes she sits on the chair arm and purrs. I said hello to her when she appeared and stroked her head once. She seemed content to stay on the chair arm, purring, but suddenly she gave my arm a painful bite! I pushed her off the chair arm and said ‘BAD’. This happens too often. I can read her body language in some situations. If she walks about in front of me and swishes her tail it means she wants to play! Most times I do play with her. If she keeps following me around but doesn’t want to play she wants to be fed. So I feed her. I’ve had her as a rescue cat for four years and she’s usually a really happy cat. But this biting is getting worse. Do you have any ideas how I can stop her doing it?
There’s some more information here, but from what you’ve said, it sounds like she has a very specific threshold for attention after which she switches into defensive mode – and bites. This can be really difficult to deal with, especially because she’s probably responding to some very subtle cue in the way you’re sitting or moving, or even breathing, and then overreacting to it. Is there any other trigger going on in the room or the house at the time, like a noise outside, or a sound on the radio or television?
If not, and you can’t see any behavioural cues for when she’s about to bite, I’d suggest firstly a consultation with your vet to determine if there’s a medical issue that might be triggering this (for example, arthritis making it suddenly uncomfortable to keep sitting), and then if that all comes up negative, talk to a clinical animal behaviourist. Good luck!
i have an 8 wk old kitten that bites me or claws then bites my arms look like been in a raspberry patch he will even jump at my legs and dig his claws in ,when i go to bed at nite i have to stay buried under the covers because he will pounce and bite until he is ready to sleep
I put my cats in a separate little room for the night – like the laundry room- a space big enough for litter and water and food. My husband has built some shelves and it gives everyone peace. They don’t wake us, I don’t worry about the kids being awakened, and they think it’s normal. I think they like the private time as well.
ive had my cat since a kitten shes always been a kitten /cat thats never liked being petted she scratches me hisses at me and bites me this has been like this for 9 years im at end of my tether with her i call her the demon cat now
Clearly your relationship with her is under severe strain!
From what you’ve said, given that it’s been going on for 9 years, I think you need professional advice, and as soon as possible. My suggestion would be to contact a qualified clinical animal behaviourist – I suggest checking the register of the Fellowship of Clinical Animal Behaviourists – and arrange a consultation as soon as possible.
We have had our female cat for four years since a kitten. Had always been a sweet cat with no aggression. She is friendly with our other cat and our dog, just a big happy family. After running an errand today I returned home to find my wife outside with our Dotson. She was bleeding and crying telling me the cat attacked our dog aggressively and when my wife picked up the dog to protect it the cat bit into her hand and scratched the hell out of her leg. I went in the house and brought out stuff to clean her up. The bite to the hand was deep. I reassured her and the cat seemed normal when I was inside. We went back inside and into the kitchen having a discussion about everything. We were inside for maybe five minutes and I saw with my own eyes, the cat walked into the kitchen and then viciously attack the dog once again and unprovoked. The dog not fighting back, got away and then the cat came at me. I was kicking it away having a roller chair between us just trying to keep distance. I yelled for my wife to get out of the house but she ran to get the dog first. The cat then attacked the dog again. Of course my wife picked up the dog so the can latched onto her biting and scratching her leg. I had to kick the cat off her and she was able to get out of the house. The cat was then coming at me. I had to keep a broom between me and the cat but she kept trying to get me. I ended up getting outside too. It’s like a switch flipped and I didn’t even recognize my cat anymore. She is an indoor cat, has always played nicely and just can’t understand what is happening. When I went back inside to get my wallet, keys and necessities too take my wife to urgent care the cat keep coming at me. I had the broom and a blanket held up just to get stuff out of my house. This was complete insanity. I considered shooting her just to get her out of there house but was able to get her with a fishing net and get her crated. Can anyone explain what the hell happened to my cat? We are taking her to be tested for rabies tomorrow and put to sleep. This cat was our dogs best friend, they would sleep together every night, the cat would groom the dog several times a day. I’m telling you, there was no indication of this ever happening. Our happy family is now broken and we just don’t understand.
I just stumbled upon your post and I was wondering what happened with the cat? Did you have to put it to sleep and didn’t test positive for rabies and how is your dog, your wife and your self?
If you’re in a rabies endemic area that would be my first concern – DEFINITELY get her tested, and if there’s any question mark, get post-exposure prophylaxis for yourself and the rest of your family.
That is so sad and awful. For all. I hope the situation resolved itself happily. Another possible scenario is that your cat suddenly had a psychological issue. That can happen with animals easily enough. I certainly hope it wasn’t rabies. And I hope you’re able to resolve the situation healthily and happily.
My cat is the sweetest and a 6 month kitten. Took him to the vet and he did have some inflammation on his gums due to his adult teeth coming in. Prescribed medication and hoping this will fix the issue. However, he’s never bit me hard enough to draw blood. It’s mostly a love bite or overstimulation, I never play with my hands or feet and only allow him to play with toys. I’ve tried so many different ways to redirect this biting to pushing my hand towards hit mouth, saying “no” or “ouch” loudly, putting him off the bed, hissing, to redirect with a toy, and letting my hand go limp when he bites. Im at a lost nothing seems to work. What do I do to fixing the ANY type of biting behavior?
It sounds like you’re doing all the normal things…
In most cases, cats grow out of this once they reach adulthood; however, it might be worth a consultation with a clinical animal behaviourist and see if there’s anything else behavioural you need to do. Good luck!
My adult male cat, occasionally bites me as if he WANTS to be petted. Not from petting too much. Usually happens in bed after a shower/bath (I think the skin warmth attracts him to my shoulders. He very much wants affection then. And if I just rest the petting arm in front of him (not petting him), he will bite it. Somewhat hard.
Can cats bite to get attention? My cat missy is very loving and if your not paying her attention will paw at you which is pretty sweet. But she also sometimes grabs your arm and bites… ive learnt if I don’t react or pull away she instantly let’s go which has made me wonder if she is doing it to get attention?
I’m sure they do, personally – if they learn that that gets you to pay attention, they’re not stupid!
My 10 month old male cat whom I raised since he was barely a week old does all of everything mentioned. Now what really concerns me is he will attack out of nowhere. And not just me. He will attack anyone and everyone. We could be setting in a chair and he’ll go for your arms. Walking down the hallway and he’ll go for ur legs. And even when I’ve been asleep in bed. He scratches and bits and when I react he has his ears back and his tail just wags. Now don’t get me wrong he is the sweetest sometimes but he’s left my arms just horrible and I have 3 kids and I’m worried he could do the same to them. He has ran up on them n a scratch here and there but me and him has been around and around before. Plz what can I do to stop his behavior.
I think it sounds like you need to talk to a a good, qualified, clinical animal behaviourist. As soon as there are children potentially at risk, it’s the best solution: normally, these are very fixable issues, but I think getting expert advice sooner rather than later is wise.
I have a male british shorthair with almost 2 years old. He is gentle, playful, our perfect boy, never hissed, scratched or bite us. In fact, sometimes he acts like a dog on us and his tail is up 99% of the time.
We got a female one with 4 months old and she is 1 year old now, but since the first day she hiss to me (she hissed in the first day when I was going to grab her to avoid her going under the bed). Most of the time she doesn’t want to be petted and bite me slowly to warn. She is basically living here like part of the decoration, because she prefer to stay far all the time. It took a few months for her to relax and sleep deeply.
When the old male is on hype at night mainly, he hold and attack her aggressively in a daily basis, she screams like crazy, hiss, snarl. I separate them or she runs and hide. I thought this was going to end after she gets older, but is the same thing everyday.
One of the reason I got her was to interact and do cat things together, but they simply have no interaction in a daily basis besides the fight (he calls for her after the fight, what? Is he playing rough?). I know the male one is the boss here, rare moments he licks her head for 5 seconds to show that. I still notice that she takes long time to relax/sleep and avoid me and him most of the time. They can eat together, sleep in the same cat tree (each one in one floor) and tolerate each other, but we have the fights.
One thing I notice is when she is in the bag going to the vet, she is sweet, but once the vet is with her, well, she becomes a demon and the vet can’t do anything. And when the male is not around, she interact more with me. It is seems is not working out for both of them. Since we usually have the male scent on me, she can hiss to me for no reason too. Is she the kind of cat who prefer to be alone with a human family? I mean, that is what I am guessing right now. Also, it is sad but it seems she had a poor interaction when she was a baby, because we noticed she copying behaviors from the male, like playing catch and hide with me, even tail up she learned to copy.
Cat-on-cat aggression, like this, is really common – most cats are not naturally very sociable animals! Take a look at this article\ for some ideas; but if you’re struggling, it might be worthwhile getting a consultation with a good, qualified, clinical animal behaviourist.
My cat had me rubbing her tummy while in labour and during giving birth. After giving birth to 5 adorable kittens and I got up and left her, she came and bit me on my calve. Can you explain this behavior please
While I would hesitate to explain anything that a cat does (!), I would suspect that while in labour, she was in pain and was comforted by your presence. However, as soon as she had kittens, she felt she had to protect them from the large scary predator nearby. From her perspective, you had gone from being a friend to a threat.
My mom adopted an 8 year old cat. The cat will be calmly sitting on the chair with my mom and then suddenly bite my mom very hard (drawing blood) and then runs off. Any suggestions?
My cat is a year old, he all the sudden out of the Blues get the impulse when you least expect it to bite you so deep. He does this constantly when I least expect it I don’t know what to do with him. Is there such thing as removing he’s molars, or something. He does the same thing with, doing a Nina jump, and stays hanging on my back he has heard me so bad. I’ve had this cat since he was a baby and I bottle fed him. He’s extremely smart he likes water he will get under the water and play with it in the bathtub, but I don’t know what to make of this. I love you and don’t want to get rid of him but I’m running out of options
If you’ve tried all the steps here and nothing’s working, try this article for more guidance; if that doesn’t help, then i would suggest a consultation with a clinical animal behaviourist with an interest in feline behaviour – at a year old, this needs to be dealt with properly before it becomes an ingrained behaviour!
Cats are very sensitive – probably something really subtle set him off. But it can be hard to work out!
There’s a really good article here by our cat vet, Lizzie, that you might find helpful, though…
Hello! I have an year old cat, we adopted her when she was around 3 months old. She’s very sweet and gentle and I think she’s also very active and playfull and it’s fun playing with her, but there are a lot of times in which we’re all just sitting on our couch or walking to the kitchen and she ”attacks” us out of nowhere, biting and scratching, she leaves marks and sometimes we even bleed because she bites aggressively. Is something wrong? she has been to the vet and they didnt find anything wrong, should i look for a second opinion? is she just playing, and we dont play as much as she likes? What can we do?
At that age, if no underlying medical problems have been found, this sounds like “pounce play” – she’s all grown up and playing rough! The best approach is usually positive reinforcement: reward gentle play and ignore or withdraw when she gets a bit rough. It may take time, but I would expect her to learn that rough pouncing doesn’t get her the engagement she wants. Good luck!
Thank you so much! We will try to positive reinforce her gentle play 🙂 It makes me more relaxed knowing she’s probably just playing
Hi! Thanks for this article! Over 3 weeks ago I adopted a kitty, abandoned on the streets. According to the vet, he’s about 4 months old. We had another cat in the past, so I expected the biting. However, he’s doing it almost non-stop, and it gets quite agressive. My hands hurt and today he attacked me on the lips (I guess it was just an accident though). When going to bed, he’s throwing at me. How can I redirect his behaviour?
Its a really long, slow process: but it involves rewarding calmness and non-biting. It might be worth talking to your vet about any local clinical animal behaviourists who might be able to help, but at the end of the day 90% of these problems come down to very gradual change by rewarding “good” and ignoring “bad” behaviour. good luck!
We have an almost one year old kitten/cat and she loves on my boyfriend, he can pet her and she plays gently with him, but no matter what I do, she plays extremely rough with me and sometimes I’m just laying down and she sees my arm move and will come to play but it’s so aggressive. I feel like she’s trying to draw blood. This is my first kitten/cat so I’m learning. I’ve been told it’s because she is female and they tend to attach and love on makes, but I don’t know if that’s true or not?
I think that’s a bit of an urban myth, I’m afraid… but it is true that for some reason she’s learnt that you are the person she gets the most response out of by playing “rough”! Try to gently discourage her by actively rewarding her for “gentle” play – kittens are smart, she’ll probably learn pretty quickly!
Thank you. I’ll have to try it
Hi. Three weeks ago my boyfriend and I adopted a cat that was about 5/6 months old. He was on the street and he was found by a colleague from work and we decided to adopt him. At first he was very friendly, however, in the last few days we noticed that he only plays biting and most of the time when we touch him he also bites us. At first he didn’t hurt us, but now he starts biting harder. When we try to push him away he puts himself in a defensive position and continues behind us and attacks our legs. We can’t figure out what is causing these attacks and would like some help. How can we stop this? Even when we move away from the game he is still after us. Thank you in advance for your help!
That’s tough! But I’d take a look at this article first:
https://vethelpdirect.com/vetblog/2022/03/11/why-does-my-cat-attack-a-guide-to-feline-aggression/
I have a female five-year-old cat. She likes to knead on me. Tonight she was kneading me on my back while I was lying in bed, she stopped and bit me hard on the back of my arm. This twice now she has done this while kneading me, first time, she bit me on the leg….hard also……she has never bitten me before this. Always a gentle cat, no biting. Why would she do this? I was not even touching her either of those times.
It sounds like my cat, who actually bites sometimes because he desires petting (not from being petted too much). Happens when he’s pretty amped up (purring very hard, maybe kneading hard). I think he’s basically overstimulated, even though I’m not doing anything per se to stimulate him. Just push him away.
I have the same issue with my cat, too. He starts kneading me and when he begins “trembling”, I get on my guard because I know it can escalate to biting. Sometimes, he settles himself down. Other times, not. I don’t pet him or even make eye contact with him when this happens. Normally, I don’t pet him at all while he’s kneading. I read the article link provided on this subject but it doesn’t address “self-activating” over stimulation.
OK, this sort of “self-activating overstimulation” (I like the term!) isn’t that common, but it can be really frustrating. I’d strongly advise a consultation with a qualified clinical animal behaviourist, to be honest, who can help get to the root of the problem and then guide you through effectively managing it.
There are lots of causes – take a start here: https://vethelpdirect.com/vetblog/2022/03/11/why-does-my-cat-attack-a-guide-to-feline-aggression/
If that doesn’t help, it’s time for a vet check to see if there’s a medical cause; and if not, it’s probably time for a behavioural consult: good luck!
I adopted 2 half brothers one has just died with heart problems he was 11yrs. The other one is 12 he has been pining and searching for him, and now won’t give me peace he’s jumping on the bed 2/3 times a night trying to bite me and very loud vocally. Im Worn out. Can’t shut him out he would destroy the door. What do you suggest
This might well be a grief behaviour; alternatively, he may be feeling “free” of the influence of the other cat in “his” space.
Either way this is likely to be a behavioural issue rather than a medical one! It may be that his behaviour settles down in a few weeks once the “new normal” becomes established, but if it doesn’t, I would strongly advise a vet check to rule out any medical causes, and then if nothing is found a consultation with a clinical animal behaviourist. In the meantime, closing the door won’t hurt him and might allow you to get some sleep… Good luck!
My cat is 4 months old, I have him since he was 50 days old. I don’t understand what’s wrong he always bites me like out of nowhere, and these bites are very aggressive. At times it doesn’t feel like it play aggression. Because even when we play with different toys he comes for my hand. And bites it. He never butes any other member of our family but just me. The wounds on my hand are getting more and more worst day by day. At times, i feel scared but yes upset because it feels like maybe he wants to tell me something that I am unable to understand. I don’t know to whom I can ask for the solution. I have studied all the behaviors of cats so that I could understand him better but It seems like I can’t get it.
It might be teenage enthusiasm, but if he’s causing open wounds, you need to get on top of this: your vet will be able to check to see if there are any medical causes, although I think it’s unlikely, and then I would recommend getting an appointment with a clinical animal behaviourist to try and work out what’s going on… good luck!
This neutered female cat that suddenly showed up at my house will walk up to me and kind of nudge my leg with her nose but when she does she bites me and deep bites
It’s probably a behavioural issue because she’s an unowned cat and you’re in her way (!), but if you’re in a rabies-risk location, it might be worth getting medical checks as very occasionally rabies can present like this in cats.
My cat is 19. I’ve had her since she was a day old (bootle fed her) now like once a month she will bite and scratch me until I bleed out of the blue
Changes in behaviour like this in old age are usually due to one of two causes: either a medical issue (such as osteoarthritis causing pain, or hyperthyroidism), or dementia. Either way, I’d strongly advise a vet check so you know what you’re dealing with and can get her any help she needs!
This is really well done. Thank you so much.
Hi I have a 11 month old male foster cat (my first time looking after a cat by myself) about 99% if the time his behaviour is fine but once a day he just really bites my arm really hard leaving marks and sometimes bleeding. I am not usually doing anything to make him do this – just sitting watching TV . I’m worried as he will be adopted by someone soon and they may have children who he might do this to. I don’t know his backstory so I don’t know if he was mistreated previously or just not used to human interaction. I play with him him a lot – he likes fishing rod and laser pen toys. Apart from the biting I do love him and his behaviour is ok. I hope someone is able to help me with this matter. Thank you.
8 weeks ago I adopted a cat from the Oregon humane society. Your story matches perfectly with mine. Such an interesting coincidence!
We are working on his biting issue everyday. I was warned about his handling sensitivity, I adopted him and in just one week he was relaxed & calm, now I’m totally in love.!
Thank you for being a foster parent, bless your heart. Don’t get discouraged!!
I agree, it does sound like there might be some back story there – but as you say, you don’t know what that is so you have to start where you are.
First things first, take a look at this newer article looking at ways of approaching this issue: https://vethelpdirect.com/vetblog/2022/03/11/why-does-my-cat-attack-a-guide-to-feline-aggression/
If nothing there helps, then I think the next step is to talk to a clinical animal behaviourist, as this does sound like it’s going to take some untangling.
Good luck!
My cat is 3 yrs old. Usually she is gentle and playful. She often rubs against my legs when she wants attention. When I don’t return the attention she sometimes bites my leg. This is painful! What is really going on?
It sounds like she wants attention and has found that this is a good way of getting it…!!! Try providing her with a toy or distraction, rewarding calm and non-bitey approaches, and, if possible, not rewarding her for more aggressive advances.
Hi! I hava cat who is about 2.5 years and he’s been with me for about 18 months. Everything was good until 8 months ago when he started attacking me when I sat in my usual chair, causing some deep scratches and minor bites. Now he will run into the room, jump and attack. Today I was on the floor, gently petting him, thinking wow, he’s so much better! Then about 15 minutes later he came back into the room, seemingly calm, walked over and bit my arm quite deeply to the extent I had swelling within 10 minutes. I went to urgent care, got antibiotics, and when I returned, he was very happy. He slept on my chest or in my arms for several hours.
The vet and I have tried different meds, and while the calming collars combined with Feliway helps some, it’s not getting better.
I checked into the pet behaviorists in my area, but assessment and treatment is over $700!
I also have an autoimmune disorder, and Hobbes is my emotional support animal for bipolar disorder.
Help!
I’m afraid that it sounds like you’re well beyond general advice! I know its expensive… but I think a full clinical behavioural assessment is by far the best option here, for both of you.
My cat often attacks me . Biting and scratching my arms with her nail. She is 8 months old and a tuxedo . I don’t know the reason for that but is becoming more common to her every time. What do I do about it? I can’t really tell if she wants to play or just being aggressive.
Take a look at this new blog that goes into a bit more detail: https://vethelpdirect.com/vetblog/2022/03/11/why-does-my-cat-attack-a-guide-to-feline-aggression/
I have a white and crème colored kitten and he a couple months old or so. She’s playful and very hyper I don’t think he knows he’s hurting me but He attacks my knees fingers hands and toes and usually when I try to pet him he bites me or claws me. I am bleeding on my finger a lot because of that. But he never lets me close enough to clip his nails or sand them down without a fight.
I have a male cat that bites me aggressively, he knows better because he run immediately. He has even bite me at night on my bed. I have anxiety issues and ptsd so this doesn’t sit well with me and makes me very angry. He also craps in the floor when he gets mad. He is not enjoyable to have at all. But I have had him 5 years and I don’t want him to have to go to to another family because I’m his 2nd, but I can’t deal anymore either!!!
Take a look at this new blog where we explore this issue in more depth: https://vethelpdirect.com/vetblog/2022/03/11/why-does-my-cat-attack-a-guide-to-feline-aggression/
We’ve had our cat for about 3 years now, I got her from a work colleague who was moving to a flat & couldn’t have pets she is about 6 years old (I think) she’s a calico & I’ve heard they can be temperamental! Anyway 99% of the time she is a gorgeous, loving cat, but she is so aggressive, especially with me! She bites and scratches me very badly, without a reason. I have scars on my legs & arms where she’s attacked me. It’s very intimidating, sometimes she won’t let me get into bed without coming for me, I push her away & I’ve started throwing the duvet over her to calm her down, this used to work but not so much now, she just keeps coming back at me! People think it’s funny and that I’m exaggerating but it can be really scary when she’s like this, she is such a lovely cat most of the time & I do love her, just don’t like her aggression. Help!
We’ve talked more about managing this problem at this new blog article: https://vethelpdirect.com/vetblog/2022/03/11/why-does-my-cat-attack-a-guide-to-feline-aggression/
My cat is 3 yrs old. He is an orange tabby and can be very sweet. He is mainly my cat, he stays close to me when we are home. But when I walk across the floor he attacks my feet and ankles, biting or scratching. If he’s on my bed and I try to make the bed, he’d will run at me and scratch and bite. One night in the middle of the night he started hollering like when cats are fixing to fight, and he he jumped in the middle of me biting and hissing. I was very scared of him and I have had lots of cats and have never had one bite me for no reason. Any ideas?
That does sound excessive, I agree. I think the first step is a vet check to rule out any medical problems: then if all OK, I think it’s time to get a referral to a qualified clinical animal behaviourist, and try to get to the bottom of this. Good luck!
My cat (male tabby, age 1.5 yrs) is very playful. We have dedicated play time each day. He has calmed down very slightly since he was a kitten, however he still bites often. He commonly will run out of nowhere and chase us up the stairs, then jump and bite hard on our legs- usually leaving puncture wounds Andy bruises. I’m guessing this is related to some type of attachment issue/he is upset we are walking away? We did talk to our vet who suggested getting a second cat so he has someone to play with more often. We often try distraction techniques when walking up the stairs, like throwing a toy which works sometimes. It’s just difficult to know when to brace for impact walking around the house.
Otherwise he is very loving, interactive, greets strangers, and is curious. After reading the article and comments, it seems our next step would be to see a behavioralist.
Yes, it’s really tough! The problems are often really subtle, and I’m afraid to say that once we get beyond the obvious (rule out pain, changes in the household etc), any other advice we give might help one cat but make another worse – hence why a behaviourist, who can tailor their advice to your cat in your situation, is the best place to go next. Good luck!
I’ve had to let my 10 year old Cat go to the RSPCA to be re-homed.
She viciously bit me twice in a week, both times I was just sitting next to her on the sofa. I have a serious autoimmune desease and can not afford to keep getting vicious bites. The last one happened last Thursday night. I was just putting my left hand into my cardigan pocket, while sitting next to her and she just went for the back of my hand, drawing blood and it left some skin out of my hand.
I wish I understood why she did it because I miss her so much, but I had to remember my health problems and give her up.
I am going through this now. I am scared if he is regimes he will bite someone else. We have health issues and our doctor doesn’t want us to keep going in antibiotics over this. So sad.
So sorry to hear that… but as you say, you have to protect yourself.
A fairly common thread in these posts is that the owner ‘s attention is often on an electronic device- or in my case, a book or newspaper. Boring! Cat wants attention, this is one surefire way to get it! I now know that if I sit in “her” chair for too long, I must watch for the tell-tale sitting on my left side and staring at me! I now vacate the chair immediately and that works!
I have a 1 year old male cat who for no reason will jump at me or attack my legs snd bite. Most times draw blood if not covered by clothing. I am getting to the point where he must go soon if it doesn’t stop. He does not back down for approx 10 min. Any ideas please
Your cat going for your ankles is quite common.
Cats are Hunters and they see your legs/ankles as prey.
This happened with my Cat and she drew blood.
It’s part of a Cats nature.
Hope this helps. Brenda.
It’s not that simple I’m afraid!
There’s a longer discussion of this at a new blog here: https://vethelpdirect.com/vetblog/2022/03/11/why-does-my-cat-attack-a-guide-to-feline-aggression/
Sounds similar to my male tabby around the same age. He attacks our legs and really bites down hard. Usually happens when we walk upstairs, he will chase us and jump up to bite.
My tabby does that. When I walk by, he will lunge and bite and my legs. I am new to the cat world.. why do they do that? He is healthy.
It might just be play, or something more. There’s a longer discussion of this issue at a new blog, here: https://vethelpdirect.com/vetblog/2022/03/11/why-does-my-cat-attack-a-guide-to-feline-aggression/
I am a PCA for an elderly lady with an approximately 8 y/o male cat. He seems to like her good enough and I know he absolutely LOVES me! However he will bite her “ out of the blue” frequently. Nothing seems to provoke it!? Once or twice he has bit me! And he looks happy and perfectly fine and then you can see this weird look come over him and he lunges !! I am almost thinking it’s seizures! I can’t think of anything else !!
This is what my cat of 13.5 years is doing. One day I looked at him and calmly said you are such a good boy and he attacked me. I am scared around him. He bites others. Attacks out other cat who is older.
sounds like the relationship is really breaking down – so sorry to hear about that! I think the best place to start is a vet check up to make sure there aren’t any underlying medical issues that might be triggering it, and then (assuming, as I suspect, that he’s physically fine), I’d ask your vet for a referral to a qualified clinical animal behaviourist for a consultation. They’ll be able to help work out why he’s doing it and what to do next – good luck!
I got Lawrence as a Christmas gift (2020). he is nine years old and is very… unique it took him a while to adjust to his new home and after a while, maybe 3ish months, he has become very affectionate and love to be cuddled. About 4-6 months ago (August-ish of 2021) he started to bite me( like hard enough to break skin and sometimes draw blood), when he dose this I am just lying in bed reading or playing on my phone.( he has also done this to my sister when she was just sitting on the couch scrolling FB) At the being of Dec 2021 I took him to the vet, and after I got him on a pretty regular schedule ( w/ feeding attention/cuddle time that kind of thing). he was doing really great until tonight and I just don’t know what else to do because I can’t afford another vet bill right now and this is really starting to affect my mental health. I don’t want to send him back he is a senior Cat and is usually such a sweet boy. I also doubt he would get another chance as he was sent back once before i got him. I would appreciate any and a advice.
Unfortunately, it’s very difficult to give any advice on such a specific situation over the internet. Given his age, though, a key consideration would be whether he is suffering any other medical condition such as an overactive thyroid or early onset feline cognitive dysfunction (especially if his behaviour otherwise is unusual) – but your vet would need to assess him for these. If not, the best thing would be a referral to a clinical animal behaviourist; otherwise, it’s probably a matter of keeping him as calm as possible without overstimulating him.
I have a female cat she’s just over a year old and she loves affection but these past few days she’s started coming to lay with me and then just gently placing her teeth on my cheek then moving them whilst purring is this something I should be worried about she’s also done it to my daughter
That sounds like affectionate behaviour for a cat! If you’re worried, you could try distracting her with a treat or toy.
Our cat Diego smacks and trys to bite my husband, they are just lying on the bed doing nothing. Diego will meow then smack and bite at him then jump down. . My husband has never abused or smacked at him at all.
Some cats are sensitive but that does seem to be taking it to extremes! I think it might be time to talk to a clinical animal behaviourist to see what’s going on inside Diego’s head!
A neighborhood cat that came around now and then began coming around more and more often being very persistent and also somewhat annoying, crying at every entrance to the house. I ended up feeding the cat( I’m glad I did because he was starving)! Did some snooping around our block and I believe the owners moved and left this beautiful animal….MINE NOW JERKOFF! Anyway, this cat rubs and bunts all over me and purrs and if I begin to move in any direction…he attacks me!
Well, I have gained some trust and haven’t been attacked in a few weeks, but if I shew him a little so he can’t get in to my home, he attacks my legs…I’m not even shewing with my feet. I can’t tell if this is male or female…and who knows about shots or the chip…and I’d like to make sure he is healthy , so I’m gonna trick him by letting him get used to a crate then off we go to the doc’s, but what’s up with the biting? Surely he can’t be feeling threatened and that is why he bites….any advice?
He may well feel threatened, or see you as a food supplier rather than an owner/companion.
Hello, I have a story about my current cat and his condition he may have. Sorry for the long story. You can jump to the middle if you want. I found a stray kitten of about 2 weeks old that was abandoned outside of a house( the family there recently moved out about a few days ago from when the cat was found). His name is Garfield and it was alot of work raising him. We had to feed him with a bottle and sometimes he wouldn’t want to but we had to try several times in a single day sometimes. When weaning him it was easier and he grew up to be about 9ish pounds when he hit 1 years old. He got all his vaccines and I took him to the vet since the beginning. He always seemed skinny and even now at almost 2 years old he seems skinny for his age. The problem here is that he is not friendly to other people or animals. He hisses at my other family members that don’t live with us. He bit my older sister and gave her an infection but it healed after. I live with my parents and my younger sister. Garfield loves to run around the house and is very curious that he will open cabinets and drop things that is in his way. He loves being on the table too. The problem is that sometimes he will play bite us but it hurts and alot of times will draw blood. I took away a piece of mint gum that he was obsessed with and he bit me with blood drawn. He bites/scratches me the least of the four of us since I know when not to pet or too much of it. I don’t bother him like my other family members. But he still bites me on occasion and alot of those times he will draw blood. Also, I think he may have FHS since sometimes his back will twitch and he will over groom himself. He also doesn’t like to be pet in his stomach, back or tail for more than a few seconds (his stomach will be an auto bite if we touch there). His whole head area is fine but he doesn’t like to be pet as much as other cats I’ve encountered. We have busy lives so we don’t play with him as much as we want. My mom has scars from the cat since she bothers the cat alot but I know cats shouldn’t bite and draw blood this much. We do trim his nails but only every couple months at the vet since he doesn’t like it(my vet hates doing it and charges us over double). What can we do to help our cat be more social and to not bite/scratch us so much to the point of drawing blood? If you have any questions about Garfield I’ll be glad to answer. Thanks for any advice! 🙂
Some cats are just less sociable than others, unfortunately! However, I would strongly advise getting a referral to a qualified clinical animal behaviourist who has a strong background in feline behaviour 9your vet will be able to recommend one in your area), as there’s a lot that can potentially be done after a thorough behavioural assessment and discussion. Good luck!
My eight-month-old kitten can be very aggressive for no reason. She could be sleeping on me and being affectionate and then turn right around and bite me hard how can I stop this
It’s most likely that you respond (perhaps unconsciously) and end up touching one of her sensitive areas – see Lizzie’s comments above, especially about petting and kitten biting!
My cat is young about 13 months, not sure if that makes a difference. I don’t like him to jump on kitchen counters so I take him down and say “down”. He then comes after me and tries to bite me. He will follow me a continue to try and bite.
I think it sounds like the relationship isn’t as good as it might be! I’d suggest a discussion with a clinical animal behaviourist, see what can be done to help.
We adopted Friz when he was 6 weeks old. My wife brought him home with him holding tightly to her chest and he loves to snuggle up by he shoulder each evening while on the back of the chair with warm towels fresh from the drier for him to snuggle on and at bed time sleep very close to her. He seems closely bonded to her. He is friendly with me, I give him treats from my hand. He has never bitten me or acted aggressive with me in any way but once or twice a week bites my wife, usually on the head while snuggling a few inches from her head, and most often draws blood. When she is bitten she most often is reading in her chair and not moving or speaking. He stares motionless for a few seconds then lunges and bites
This is clearly a “normal” behaviour from his perspective, but obviously isn’t a desirable one! I’d suggest having a chat with a feline behaviourist and seeing if there are any suitable ways this can be gently discouraged without disrupting the bond he has with her.
thank goodness I found this thread. I was wondering if you have any idea on my kittens behavior. they come to me every night, wanting to get really really close to my face then lay on my chest and all of a sudden will get really near my face and try to bite my nose. I always get bitten at my jaw, neck, cheek and nose. if they are not after my face, they are after my fingers. they bite my fingers most of the time.
My 6 month cat never ever bites even when I do annoy him. He’s the sweetest and just cuddles with me. But yesterday and today, he started to randomly bite. He’s chillin next to me and randomly starts meowing and biting my hand (even bit my nose to wake me up) but not a quick bite, more like he keeps my hand in his mouth and bites on it quite hard, while still meowing. The first time I thought it had to do with hormones but the second time really felt like it had nothing to do with that
It might be a behavioural thing as he’s growing up and testing the boundaries. However, it could also be due to pain or stress – probably best to rule that out first with your vet, then if it persists, consider a feline behavioural referral. Good luck!
My 12 year old cat has been biting me since he was six years old. The first time, it was redirected aggression. A strange cat suddenly leapt up on the window screen, and Beau (my cat), attacked me so fiercely that I still have scars on my right arm. Since that time, he has unpredictability gone from purring and cuddling and then leaping up and scratching near my eye or biting my hand until it bleeds. Each time, he has had a serious health problem. Once he was dangerously anemic from a microbial parasite, and the last time he had a milder problem with matted fur causing pain on his abdomen. A cat behaviorist told me we are well-bonded, but that Beau has “high predatory needs.” Is that really a “thing?”
It’s possible, but I’d say it sounds like when he’s poorly he’s less social and really, REALLY wants to be left alone! That’s very much normal cat behaviour – just more dramatic than most!
Hi. My cat is almost 2 years old. He can be very happy and calm, but very quickly he changes mood. I will be petting him and he will suddenly bite me out of nowhere. It’s not just one bite, he will bite me pretty hard and as many times as he can until I pull my hand away. There will be times where he holds onto my arm and very aggressively kicks me with his back legs while biting. I am very busy and I often work from home. Sometimes I’ll take a break and lean back in bed and read. I’ll be consumed on my phone and he’ll jump on the bed and bite me if I don’t pet him when he wants me to. He pees on the bed sometimes. I clean out his litter box everyday and I make sure he has everything, yet sometimes I’ll come home to see pee on the bed. One more thing, he gets aggressive when we shower him. The last time I showered him was when he spilled food on himself. My sister and I put him in the tub and he started scratching and crying aggressively. He clung to my sisters back and scratched up her arms, back, and stomach. He wouldn’t allow us to wash him. It got to the point where my other sister had to help us shower him. All three of us trying to scrub him and avoid getting scratched. At one point he bit down on my sisters arm so hard I had to move in and gently remove him. But when I did he started biting me. He bite my finger to the point where he created a large and deep whole right in the center of it. It was entirely infected and I had to go to the doctor. The cat would not let go. The last time before that, he got ahold of some plastic my friend left on the floor. I didn’t want him playing with it or eating it. So I tried to gently grab him and put my hand near his mouth to remove the item. He took my finger in his mouth and punctured my nail. I love my cat, but sometimes he can be too aggressive. I can’t explain it, I would never give him up, I very much believe that he is family and you never give up on family. But sometimes I just need answers.
That’s awful: however, from his point of view, three giants held him down and tried to drown him, so its hard to blame him for being jumpy! Most cats don’t need regular showering, so I’d avoid that unless absolutely necessary. It might also be worth having a chat with a clinical feline behaviourist about him to see what else you can do to help.
We adopted our 1 year old cat from the local Humane Society. He was originally adopted by another family, but returned because of their child developing allergies. Since we brought him home, he bites my arms and hands often. He does not bite my husband.
Clearly for some reason he hasn’t bonded with you. Might be time for a behavioural assessment; alternatively, since he’s new to the family, you could try giving him time with a pheromone diffuser to see if he relaxes and settles.
I recently “adopted” two cats from my best friend’s mother, who recently passed away. Both cats had been left alone in a house for more than a year while their guardian was ill; they were fed and cared for regularly, just no one lived in the house with them. One cat, Lily, recently passed away, and I am left with Tipper, who has been through some very distressing events recently.
By all accounts, Tipper is a very sweet cat, but he often bites my hand while laying on my lap, purring and kneading my stomach. I don’t consider the bites aggressive in nature, and I always stop petting him to ensure it’s not overstimulation. But then, he wants pets and tries to get closer to me, which I back away from because I’m concerned about him biting me. Last night, he drew blood. We’ve started him on Fluoxetine, but that won’t take affect for a few weeks still. Plus, I know that he needs some behavioral modification, but I’m not sure what that is: step away, loud noise… not sure how to reward good behavior for this–suggestions?
I think a full behavioural assessment from a qualified feline behaviourist would be best here – I don’t really want to make specific recommendations over the internet without a full assessment and plan in place. Sounds like you’re really on it though, so good luck!
My new cat, Marius, looks like a tiger, greyish brown. We got him from a friend’s friend. At first unfortunately he bit me a couple of days but now adores me & is very relaxed. I only hope he won’t bite me again?
As a one-off from a new cat, this isn’t anything to be worried about: he was probably scared of the new person in his life! Give him time!
My cat has attacked me after waking up from sleep. He’s done this on and off since I’ve had him and is so completely random I never really think about it until he does it. He came out of a bad homing experience and I don’t know if feline PTSD is a thing or if it even exists after 7 years.
I’m not sure PTSD is a “thing” in the same way that humans experience it, but certainly early traumatic experiences can leave long-term behavioural “scars”. I think a consult with an expert feline behaviourist might be a good way to go here.
Your observations are wonderful, my cat bite me when she wants to play with me, that’s it!
I have a 7 month old male cat we got him when he was a baby 9 weeks we was told when we got him. He’s so aggressive towards me and my 2 year old son he chases him and Bites him claws him full on attacks him sometimes I have to peel him off my son he then runs away and hides he’s done it a fair few times . He also does it to me aswell he doesn’t like to be petted only in the mornings. Before I have to let him go I need to know if anyone has any advice
Is he fixed? If not get him fixed asap. He should calm down.
Given that he’s attacking a child, I think if you’re going to keep him, you need a professional feline behaviourist’s opinion on how to manage the issue – this isn’t something I’d advise trying to manage without expert advice. Good luck!
My car has bitten me twice now on the wrist and I have had to go to the ER for cellulitis. Both times she was sitting near me and I was swiping on my kindle. I don’t trust her anymore. I hate to have to let her go, but I can’t have it happen again. What can I do.
It might be worth getting her checked for any underlying medical issues that might make her grumpy, but I suspect this is a behavioural problem: try and find a good local feline clinical behaviourist (your vet will probably be able to recommend one) to help. Good luck!
The cat is a little over 3 month old .. He meows an then bites me . he has drawn blood I can be laying down an he come an bites me if I pet he bites . I at a loss . I took him his as his owner lost his home an the cat would be on the street. I’ve had him a little over 1 week an he wasn’t like this at first . I’m at a loss an before I can rehome him I need to figure out why he is doing this . I have 5 other cats all rescues .. I need help
Multiple cats in a household is stressful for most cats, and my suspicion would be that this is what’s going on; general stress reduction techniques are worth trying, but also a vet check for underlying medical causes, and if necessary, a feline behaviourist. However, my suspicion is that in this case it’s that he doesn’t feel secure with so many other cats around.
We have a one year old Siberian mix cat. We have had him for about 4 months. We is a lovely communicator, loves to be brush and loves playing with a few of his toys. He has started jumping and biting my legs as I pass by. I stopped patting or brushing him as much as I did. He could be purring away and then bingo he bites. I am now nervous of him and feeling sad we have this problem.
OK, it might be a good idea to talk to a specialised feline behaviourist; in the meantime, get your vet to check him over for any medical causes (like painful foci) that might trigger this behaviour. Good luck!
we’ve had our cat for 3 weeks now first two weeks went really good no aggression but now he is very aggressive and masturbates very often . is 2-3 times a day normal or should i be concerned?
he also has started biting during playing
It depends how old he is, whether he’s neutered, and if so, when that was done. I think this does need attention sooner rather than later, so I would definitely talk to your vet and consider a referral to a feline behaviourist – Take a look at https://fabclinicians.org/
I see other people asking questions, and I’d like to submit mine: my cat is a little less than a year old, and I’ve had her for about two months. She’s the first cat I’ve owned by myself and is normally very sweet and cuddly, but there are times when she will meow loudly while diving for any bit of bare skin she can reach and bite down apparently as hard as she can. If I dodge, she follows – the meow is long and continuous and doesn’t stop til after she’s thoroughly clamped down on my skin. Once detached, she may make one or two more attempts, but within a few minutes will act like it never happened, and want to cuddle again. What’s going on? Is there something I could be doing wrong?
It would be misdirected play behaviour? It might be worth considering trying to retrain her to a toy rather than a limb (!) – if not, then I think a feline behavioural consult is your best bet… good luck!
Thank you for your article. Unfortunately none of the points really matches with my cat’s rare instances of biting! She is generally a very sweet cat who will bite gently during play / bite rougher when she does not like to be touched/overstimulated at certain parts of her body.
But the bite that I am most concerned about is when she is seemingly very calm and unprovoked — yet she would give me the hardest and fiercest bite while grabbing onto my hands with both paws — and this is a split second sudden move that would all the time draw blood. This distressing act from her comes unannounced and impossible for me to predict as she would not meow or make a sound before/during. Her tail would not be swishing either.
She would look guilty and her ears would be folded and she would freeze after I react with an OUCH etc.
Why does she do that out of the blue, when during 95% of the time when she is in the same situation (of cuddling/sweet whispers and affection from me), she is only happy and purring? Very puzzled, as if she was possessed and triggered for a split second to defend herself… I hope you could give some insight on this! To better understand her… thank you!
This is exactly what my cat does too. No warnings what so ever, just grabs arm, hand or even head with claws out from both paws and bites hard. She then runs away into another room. She always draws blood both from the bite and claws. One vet told me this was her telling me she wanted to play. I got her when she was 4 yrs old, she’s now 7, and found out I was her third owner and have no info on her as a kitten. She was very timid to begin with but now she will sit beside me on the arm of the chair for cuddles and purrs and drools during this interaction and never bites. She is still very timid when I have visitors but does come out from hiding eventually and is quite friendly. I’m at a loss as to why she does this.
I’m afraid that without a full understanding of the context, it’s very difficult to say why that’s happening. It might be misdirected hunting activity, but I think talking to a good qualified feline behaviourist is the best bet – your vet will be able to recommend one. Good luck!
I have had my kitten for 5 weeks now she won’t be stroked or picked up she is very aggressive and only bitea us all.i have bought.many toys and fellway plug ins but she is still the same the biting had gotten worse is there anything I can get for her.thanks
We have a cat that always bites us. He attacks us out of the blue. I ended up with a serious injury. We’re considering bringing him back to the animal shelter. Is there any way that we can stop his biting?
It depends why it’s happening – in terms of the underlying behavioural issue and the specific triggers. I think that the best way to get to the bottom of this would be to get a referral to a good qualified feline behaviourist – your vet will be able to recommend one.
My male Cat is constantly rubbing his ears with his paw or on the floor wherever he can get relief I’ve had him to the vet they’ve done a test no infection or ear mites why is he doing this
Ear infections and mites are common, but there are many other conditions that can cause itchy ears. It can be seen in flea or louse infestations occasionally, or polyps, but allergic skin disease is also really common. Perhaps time to go back and talk to your vet about some additional tests?
I have a difficult situation with a bitey cat, who I very much want to keep, but I am not sure whether it’s safe. Boris was orphaned as a kitten & bottle-fed; then one of his early adopters had him front declawed. He spent much of his life in a shelter with a history of being adopted/fostered and returned for aggression, of which I was fully informed and accepted when I brought him home 2.5yrs ago when he was around 6yo.
We had a number of bitey, bloody events during the first few months as I learned his triggers and then sporadically after when there was household tumult (packing/unpacking/etc). But 99% of the time he’s marvelously affectionate, cuddly, playful, smart & chatty.
Occasionally he seems to lose track of reality and go into KILL mode. The only reliable intervention I’ve found is to isolate him, but sometimes he continues screaming/yowling & trying to burrow under the door. I generally sustained a few bites during the process of putting a door between us, which got red and swollen for a couple days and then resolved.
However, a chomp several weeks ago became dangerously infected and landed me in the hospital with cellulitis for 5 days of IV antibiotics. One of the ER docs suggested that this reaction meant I was likely particularly sensitized to his “mouth flora” and that it would not be safe for me to keep him. A Dr uncle who is an internist poo-poohed the idea that it’s anything particular to Boris and starts it’s more likely a reaction to a bacterium common to cats.
At the moment, he is back at the Austin Pets Alive shelter while I move apartments, but my hope is to take him back. He’s been put on meds (fluoxetene?) and there’s been a group conversation with me, the shelter, and a local animal behavior consultant (referred by Boris’s vet) who thinks she can help, but I’m looking for any and all additional resources.
Any behavioral improvements are likely to take weeks or months and I have family who think I should not even try to take him back; i.e. that the infection risk of any future bites is untenable.
I do not know where/who to consult to get an impartial medical opinion of whether there’s any way to take him back safely. I assume any scenario would include training/desensitization for him to reduce bites and on-hand antibiotics for me to immediately address bites, but I don’t know what kind of medical professional to consult. None of the doctors I encountered during this episode had any specific experience, just vague assumptions. Do you have any suggestions of what sort of professional I should seek?
My 11 year old cat attacked me from behind biting and drawing blood. This was last night 7/7/2021. He has bitten me many times over the years like this, but it seems to getting worse. He was declawed as a kitten. He acts as if he hates me, but later on gives me love bumps and licks my arm wanting food. The time before this he waited for me to get out of bed than bit me again from behind. I love him, but I don’t know what to do about this.
Just hit it hard next time. That’s animals establish dominance in the wild with fights normally
This is untrue and cruel. Do NOT try this approach – you need to find out what the cause is and then deal with it appropriately. Brutalising the cat is not an appropriate or legal approach – you could be prosecuted for that behaviour in the UK.
I think it’s time to talk to a qualified feline behaviourist, to be honest – there’s clearly a problem in the relationship that needs addressing. Your vet will be able to recommend a good local one – good luck!
With regards to Boris, definitely you need a good qualified feline behaviourist – ideally board certified.
In terms of the bite bacteria, I think sensitisation to one particular cat is unlikely; I would think it far more likely that he is carrying a particularly virulent strain of Pasteurella or similar. However, you would need to seek a second medical opinion on that front, as I am not a human doctor! In the UK I would recommend consulting a GP and potentially a referral to the relevant specialist; I’m afraid I don’t know how your medical system works so I can’t give you any other advice than start with a generalist who can direct you in the right direction!
My year old cat always bites me when I give her affection. She doesn’t do this with my boyfriend who she absolutely loves but with me I could be holding her and kiss her head( my boyfriend does this to her a lot) and as a response she immediately turns her head to bite my face. She’s done this and has drawn blood twice. What is wrong with her or me. I don’t hold her incorrectly nor treat her bad if anything I spoil her while my boyfriend doesn’t even like her that much. It doesn’t make sense and I’m not trying to take it personally but at this moment I have her in another room for a time out while I sit here with a bloody lip
It sounds like she thinks you’re getting too close! Perhaps consider a discussion with a feline behaviourist?
Hi I got a cat from a shelter a few months ago who, according to them, should be around 8 years old. He’s an absolute sweetheart most of the time and is super cuddly but every now and then it seems he has completely random bouts of biting. Ive had him nip at me before from petting too much but this is different. I won’t even be petting him and he’ll come up, cuddle against me, then sit up and start biting my arm hard. No hissing, no backing away or raising up. He’ll even switch between cuddling against me and biting hard back and forth until i walk away. I’ve tried looking online for an explanation but everything jumps to biting while petting and this is completely random. also completely different from his “stop petting me” biting where he just gently puts his jaw around my wrist with hardly any pressure.Normally he’s a super cuddly and calm cat, is there a reason for this?
The most common explanations are either over-excitement, or else poor early training, where previous owners rewarded him for the behaviour. Ideally, I’d try and get an appointment with a feline clinical behaviourist (your vet will be able to recommend one); in the meantime, don’t reinforce the behaviour with attention or treats, and hopefully it will start to fade… good luck!
My cat is really temperamental. She loves affection. But she attacks, bite, and claws, unprovoked. Just the other day she attacked my grandfather while he was sleeping drawing blood. Bites everybody. Even me. I dont know what is wrong with her at all.
Might be time to see a qualified feline behaviourist, to be honest – that behaviour isn’t normal and should really be investigated, for everyone’s sake! Your vet will probably be able to recommend someone good in your area.
If I leave my cat alone for a day or two when I come home, like today, he violently attacks me by biting and scratching my arms and gnawing on my wrist bone. Today is the first time he drew blood.
I think I may have figured out why I got attacked this time. My daughter has two puppies. When I came home I immediately went to my cat and picked him up. After I washed and changed my clothes he is so aggressive toward me anymore.
I have a question I have a friend I gave a kitten too but now it’s full grown and fixed and is a inside Kat. But when someone walks in the kat will run on u acting like it wants to be pet.. but it will bite severely hard and aggressive but THIS KAT WILL ALL OF A SUDDEN AGGRESSIVELY ATTACK SOMEONE EVEN THOUGH THE KAT ISNT BEING PETTED OR EVEN GIVEN ANY ATTENTION TOO AS A MATTER OF FACT IT JUST DID IT TO ME IS THE REASON WHY IM ASKING THIS. DOES ANYONE HAVE ANY CLUE AS TO WHY. Ive personally been around kats my whole life and I’m 40 years old and Ik ALOT on kats but never had one to do this before..
Sudden behaviour flips like that are fairly common in some breeds, but until you know exactly what the trigger is it’s really hard to work with! I’d suggest getting a referral to a good feline behaviourist, to be honest, to get to the bottom of that.
Help please!!! I have an almost 2year old cat male that randomly attacks ONLY me and goes for my head! I was laying on my couch relaxing and my cat just jumped up and attack me on my head with his teeth and claws and drew blood, he has done this when I was pregnant with my son and than stopped but now doing it again and I’m worried about my son and I don’t want to give him to a shelter cuz they will kill him and no one will take him. Please help!!!!
OK – definitely time for a feline behaviourist to get involved. Your vet will be able to recommend one; good luck!
My cat is super affectionate and loving. He gets random bursts of energy sometimes and runs around the room, sharpens his claws on things, and has now been biting, holding onto, and clawing my arm. After I would tell him no he would walk off and come back more gathered and be loving again just to flip a switch and bite me again. We keep him in my room due to the fact of having dogs in the other side of the house. Is this anything I should be worried about or is it just playfulness?
It sounds more like playfulness than anything else; however, if it’s getting worse or he’s actually hurting you, I’d suggest talking to your vet about getting a behavioural consult, possibly from a local qualified feline behaviourist, to see if there’s a cause that can easily be managed. Good luck!
I love my cat tremendously and she’s a young 19 mos. old female, spayed, etc… who I got as a 2-3 mo. old kitten. Her mother was feral but she has been handled by people since shortly after birth. She initiates communication with me and a need to cuddle but then suddenly bites me breaking the skin. It is very painful. I stop contact with her when she does this and say “Owww!” loudly. She sits on my laptop (I’m a writer) and sort of demand my attention which I give her. She purrs but then the biting begins. She often comes to me and holds my knee so I’ll pick her up and let her lay across my shoulder, but her tail swishes the whole time and she eventually bites me again. I have to constantly wear Band-Aids. I just recently adopted a new puppy which she plays with, but she still wants to play rough with me. I don’t understand what it is she needs in the way of comfort and personal time with me. We’re in a small southern town and I have no access to a counselors for animal behavior. Can anyone help me?
I have to say, a good behaviourist is probably what you need – are there any that will do a video consultation, perhaps? Your vet, or a local cat support charity might be able to recommend one?
Hope you can help me get over the fright I feel towards my son’s cat.
I’ve always played, held and pet him up until about a month ago when all of a sudden he attacked me while i was petting him. As I was sitting with him and petting him, all of a sudden he bit my hand and when I started to get up he bit me twice on my back and ran after me and bit me again on my leg while hissing at me. We finally got him in his carry-on but he was still continuing to hiss. All I can think of that could have provoked him to do this is that I had pulled him from under my couch while he was asleep about 10 minutes before he attached me and maybe he was mad but didn’t attack me when I pulled him out. I was actually petting him and attacked me suddenly. I actually went to my son’s house after a couple weeks it happened but was and still am terrified of him and can’t touch him and I get so nervous if he comes anywhere near me. I’m just afraid he remembers attacking me and will do it again. Please help me understand if I should be afraid of him attacking me?
It seems more likely that something he saw or heard – that perhaps you didn’t – scared him unexpectedly and he took it out on you? As a one off, I’d be more thinking that was the issue. If he acts aggressively in future, though, I think the services of a cat behaviourist might be needed to work out what’s upsetting him so much!
I have a cat that is super affectionate and constantly wants to climb on to me and purr. She follows me everywhere wanting attention. But sometimes she will suddenly bite me, really hard, drawing blood, then go right back to being affectionate. She also randomly flattens her ears and hisses at me. I’m not sure if she is trying to play and just gets over stimulated, she is the most affectionate cat I’ve ever known except for the random attacks.
That does sound like over-stimulation, from what you’ve said…
My cat almost never bites unless he get annoyed, but ever since I woke up hes been biting me like hes been trying to get me to do something, I´m worried and keep thinking I should tell my parents about this. Hes currently sleeping on my legs, he bites me whenever I don´t have a blanket on my legs.
I think a sudden change like that really does need looking into – something has clearly altered, either in the household environment, or in him (or I suppose in theory in you). I’d suggest a vet check to rule out serious medical issues, then start looking for possible stress factors in and around the house!
I have a 2.5 year old male neutered cat who has always been really sweet and calm and never agressive. Over the past 3 weeks or so, he has been really kind of needy and has sat with me on the sofa or come up to me as I’ve walked past him and pushing his head into me like he wants some affection. So I have stroked him and sat with him etc, but he has started biting me which he has never ever done before. The first time he was just sat next to my arm, I wasn’t stroking him at this point, but he looked round and bit my wrist. It was more like he just gripped his jaw round me and didn’t actually clamp down to bite. The second time again he had come up wanting affection, so I stroked his head and he was nuzzling into me then all of a sudden bit my wrist again in the same way, not clamping down but gripping for a couple of seconds then letting go. I don’t know why. I have 2 children and we are getting a puppy next month but I am worried now that this has started that he will go for one of them. At the minute it has just been me. Any ideas what may be causing it? Thank you
This is most definitely affectionate biting. Sometimes cats display affection by light gripping of the teeth on someone. I have a cat that does this and i worried at first. After more research, i found a plethora of resources that pointed me in the right direction. I think your kitty will be just fine! Continue to monitor his behavior around the puppy and give him space as needed! 🙂
his sounds like stress of some sort – either in the house, or outside. Cats are very sensitive to stress and it’s one of the main causes of behavioural change like this. It’s really important to manage stress, as it can be harmful to a cat’s health – take a look at the factsheet here for some ideas.
I have a cat who is about 10 months old. I got him from the pet store and he is neutered. He is such an amazing cat! He is soo sweet and loves to be pet and cuddled. He never shows any signs of aggression but early in the mornings when I am sleeping, he will come up to me and put his teeth on me. He isn’t bitting down but his teeth r still really sharp and can give me and my boyfriend a fright while sleeping. Why does he do this and how would I stop it?
It could be stress, or just a sign that he likes you, or that he thinks you should be up and about and playing with him…
Stopping it is hard – perhaps banning him from the bedroom? Otherwise, it might be time to talk to a good qualified feline behaviourist. Good luck!
I have a 2 year old male neutered cat he will literally come up to you and bite and it is not a gentle bite he bit me today that he tore a hole in my leg which is still bleeding since it happened he attacks me my mom granddaughter and the dogs in the house why is he acting this way
There are lots of possibilities – but if he’s that aggressive it’s time for a behaviour consult with a qualified feline behaviourist I’m afraid. Your vet will be able o recommend one. Good luck!
My kitten is 7 months old and bites all the time! He doesn’t meow very much at all so I assume he bites as a form of communication. I am careful to make sure that during play I use toys and not my hands or fingers, I also listen to him and stop petting him if I receive a bite. These bites are usually soft and harmless. But sometimes when I walk away from him (also sometimes after playing) he will run up onto my leg and give me a good bite – some of these bites have led to light bleeding. What am I doing wrong? I give him lots of attention and play with him 4-5 times a day with different toys. Any help is greatly appreciated!
It sounds like he’s getting hyperexcited – overstimulated and unable to switch off after playing. Could you incorporate a “wind down” element to the end of each play session? Ideally, so he realises it’s time to stop and goes off on his own, rather than pursuing you! The problem is probably that somehow he’s got into this pattern of behaviour… and getting him out of it might be difficult. It sounds like you’re doing everything right, but if a “wind down” doesn’t work, it might be worth asking your vet to try and get a referral to a feline behaviourist.
My persian kitten is 8 months old and she has had the operation but Mammy is getting upset because she will bite her unprovoked and it could be a scenario where our kitten is sitting next to Mammy and then suddenly go for her hand, ears back but no hissing or growling. I keep saying to Mammy it is affection and letting her know she wants to play because the few times I have been bitten I will immediately put her down and turn her cats meow on. The issue Mam has why is it more often to her.
Cats respond differently to different people – partly individual, but also social differences.
I got my cat from a shelter when he was just weaned. From the first day to 4 years later he bites. He’ll nestle in your arms, head butt, and then bites.. .hard. No hissing, no growling, just bites hard a couple times and will then lay up with me and sleep. It’s like a “need” for him where he HAS to do it. He’s a great cat and he and I have a definite bond. I just love him so much! I just don’t know why he always bites. Its weird
My cat started doing this really weird thing where she would come up to me, mostly when I’m in bed and sometimes even when I’m sleeping, and she will bite my palm (specially looks for the palm) really hard. I don’t provoke her, I don’t even interact with her when this happens, she just comes up to me and abuses me. She doesn’t look angry or agitated but rather purposely mean. She only does that to me and not my husband. Can you give me any advice?
She was recently spayed and started doing this after that. We had her checked by the vet and he said she is physically healthy.
She’s normally a very sweet kitten but I’m starting to fear and avoid her and. I will really appreciate your advice.
That’s a very strange situation… It might be that something has really stressed her out and triggered this aggressive response; or that it’s a particularly violent type of attention seeking. I think this one needs to go to a good feline behaviourist (your vet will be able to recommend a good one) – because that’s something I don’t really want to give general advice on without someone doing a full behavioural assessment. Good luck!
Hi, my kitten has started biting my face when he’s been really cuddly and purs and nestles into my neck when suddenly he’ll bite my nose, mouth or chin and I’m not sure what I’m doing wrong?
This is likely to be “overstimulation” biting, caused by overexcitement! However, there are other possibilities. I think a vet check to rule out painful spots might be a good idea; if nothing, then a referral for a behavioural consult is an option. Good luck!
My cat does this mysterious thing where she will start rubbing up again me, mostly my leg, sometimes my arm. She will walk really slowly back and forth rubbing herself and pressing into me and then bits me. She looks very irritable after the fact, also angry. It comes outta no where, I was not petting her before hand or anything. Sometimes I wonder if she it bored, wants a very particular type of attention, or is just being dramatic for no reason. The house can’t figure it out, now she is starting to do it to my mother and my sisters boyfriend. Anyone got suggestion? I think I am going to buy a spray bottom.
Don’t spray her – there will be a reason for this behaviour, you just need to figure out what it is. I’d suggest a vet check first to rule out medical issues; if nothing is found, talk to your vet about a referral to a good feline clinical behaviourist. But don’t try and “punish” her for “bad” behaviour – it is likely to make matters worse!
A friend brought her rug shampoo over for me to use. She has 3 cats. I sat it in the kitchen. I stsrted to make soup and was up late. My cat pounced on me and left a 12″ scratch through my jeans. Tonight I held hime in my arms and put him down when his tail started to move in a certain way. He nipped st my upper arm and lower arm. . I hopped up befor he did it again and started playing with him with a feather toy. I sat down and he jumped on the couch and walked across my legs and sat down 4 feet away looking out the window but keeping me in his peripheral vision. What’s going on?
It’s very hard to know for sure. It might be that he thought you were playing rough with him, so responded in kind; alternatively, you might have startled him. Sudden changes in routine can also unsettle some cats. I think the best way forward would probably be to ask your vet to check him over to rule out any physical issues (such as pain), and if nothing abnormal is found, ask for a referral to a good feline behaviourist.
I will just B sitting in a recliner chair with the feet part down + my will just act like she’s gonna walk past me at times. Then she’ll reach up, bite me + take off. Just 4 no noticeable reason that I can see whatsoever.
How do I get this 2 totally stop????
Vet check to rule out medical issues, and then you may need a referral to a feline clinical behaviourist to get to the bottom of the issue. Good luck!
My cat randomly pounces, bits and grips onto me without being provoked. I don’t know if it’s anxiety or something health related. Or just behavioural issues, but she hasn’t done it before. I’m getting really worried. She also sometimes holds a toy in her mouth and meows.
It’s never wrong to get a health check to rule out medical issues! Talk to your vet and see if there’s anything else going on.
Bandit, our year old newly adopted cat loves to bite my ankles whenever I walk up stairs. He hides and then runs up and bam…I’m bleeding with 2 fang type mark’s…. he’s usually loving and very playful…but nips when overly excited…what do we do??? Love him, but I’m totally bruised and full of holes on my legs…doesn’t do it to my husband .thanks
OK, you can’t have that! I think the best thing would be to talk to a good feline behaviourist. This sort of behaviour can be really complex, and if he’s recently adopted, I think it’s important to get professional input. Your vet will be able to recommend a good behaviourist – good luck!
Cats are active animals. They love to play around and exercise their instinctual behaviors. Whenever they get bored, they would suddenly become restless and attack you in a playful way. Playful attack is a way for cats to say that they are bored and they want to play with you. Since cats are generally active animals, they need to be mentally and physically stimulated from time to time in order to keep them healthy and happy.
How do I get my cat to stop bitting me
It depends why she’s doing it! See the blog, or have a chat to a good feline behaviourist.